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Old 03-14-2014, 07:58 AM
 
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Ex boyfriend and I hang out about once a week. Things seem pretty good. Occasionally we have sex. He says things might work out, he just needs to see that my jealousy is not as bad as it was. He tells me he loves me, we cuddle, go to movies... Dinner....

How can I get out of this mess I created? I really would like to rebuild our relationship
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Old 03-14-2014, 08:01 AM
 
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Have you really changed? I am very skeptical when it comes to people actually changing.
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Old 03-14-2014, 08:03 AM
 
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I actually have. I'm at a better place in my life, for one thing. I can , 100% say, that the little things wouldn't bother me anymore.
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Old 03-14-2014, 08:04 AM
 
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I actually have. I'm at a better place in my life, for one thing. I can , 100% say, that the little things wouldn't bother me anymore.
Is he exclusive with you right now? Is he seeing anyone else?
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Old 03-14-2014, 08:05 AM
 
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Hmmm I could only see dating one of my ex's.

The rest I could careless.
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Old 03-14-2014, 08:06 AM
 
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He's not seeing anyone else, neither am I.
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Old 03-14-2014, 08:08 AM
 
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He's not seeing anyone else, neither am I.

Not true, you are seeing each other and if you really wanted to get out of this mess you created you would have never spent time with him after you broke up.

So, to get out of this mess you created tell him you do not want to see him again, block all contact and if/when he stops by do not let him in.
This man is no more your "Ex" than my dog is a cat.
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Old 03-14-2014, 08:09 AM
 
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He's not seeing anyone else, neither am I.
How long have you guys been talking since you changed? How amenable does your gut think he is towards being in a relationship with you again?

Be careful not to just become a girl he uses for just sex and an emotional tampon. He might be using you as a crutch while he is trying to see what else is out there. Just a friendly warning...
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Old 03-14-2014, 08:12 AM
 
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We have been hanging out again for maybe a month.
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Old 03-14-2014, 08:13 AM
 
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Ex boyfriend and I hang out about once a week. Things seem pretty good. Occasionally we have sex. He says things might work out, he just needs to see that my jealousy is not as bad as it was. He tells me he loves me, we cuddle, go to movies... Dinner....

How can I get out of this mess I created? I really would like to rebuild our relationship
He is going to play this card to his advantage.

Time to move on.
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