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So the thing is I have always had a thing for this guy I met at work last year, near like November and I thought we got along extremely well. I sat next to him less than 2 weeks then had to switch group, on a different floor. We barely ever see each other again, and the last time I saw him was like late December. To this day, I still keep thinking about him but don't know what to do about it. I want at least to be friends we were before but no I started to realize I have feelings for him, I am getting shy.
Should I just one day go up to his floor to say hi like old pals?
Yes this would work a lot easier if you had something to deliver to his floor. Regardless go to his floor anyway and if you do run into him just say you had to come his area for another reason, how would he know? Can't hurt to try.
No we are in different units now there is no reason for us to bump into each other, like none besides coming up there to say hi to him. THe thing is, after I left I had tried coming up there like 2-3 times and been contacting him several times to get lunch with another friend and stuff like that. I think I have been giving out enough signals? What is driving me crazy is that I haven't seen him for 3 months and still been thinking about him almost everyday.
So the thing is I have always had a thing for this guy I met at work last year, near like November and I thought we got along extremely well. I sat next to him less than 2 weeks then had to switch group, on a different floor. We barely ever see each other again, and the last time I saw him was like late December. To this day, I still keep thinking about him but don't know what to do about it. I want at least to be friends we were before but no I started to realize I have feelings for him, I am getting shy.
Should I just one day go up to his floor to say hi like old pals?
Thanks guys,
Sure, go visit him or send an e-mail or something.
What do I send an email about? I have been seeing other peeps but still keep thinking about him. I am trying to move on but don't know how.
If I go up, what do I say now? The reason why I talked about this today is because I accidentally bumped into him yesterday for liek 5 seconds and we said hi.
We are in the NYC there is no car haha. Moreover, the note seems a little bit creepy.
How about this note?
I keed! I keed!
I would send him an email or next time I'm on his floor meeting co-workers for lunch, I would just strike up a conversation and throw out there, "hey, we should hang out sometime and grab a coffee or something."
I would send him an email or next time I'm on his floor meeting co-workers for lunch, I would just strike up a conversation and throw out there, "hey, we should hang out sometime and grab a coffee or something."
If you have any reason to believe that he would be interested, then I agree with this. It's not like you keep running into him so you lose the embarrassment factor, though I wonder--yesterday when you did run into him, was it on your turf or his? Maybe he made up an excuse to come see you?
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