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Sounds like my relationship with my bestfriend except we both feel attraction. Too bad she is dumber than rocks and starting to put on some weight to what used to be a hot body.
She begs me to take her to the gym, but I don't really feel like investing in her and putting the effort in for something I am not going to enjoy. Sounds bad but meh lol
So this is ok to do with platonic friends? I had no idea!
Depends on the person. I don't kiss any of my friends on the lips except one, although I haven't seen her or any of the girls I was friends with in years.
My female best friend was infatuated with me while we were teens but I ignored her advances at the time. Then I was the one who started to feel attracted to her and nowadays we have very platonic thing.
We both went to university and now she's a flight attendant while I'm still finishing my master's degree. She has a boyfriend that I've known for a few years as well.
We hadn't seen each for 7 months (she's working in another country) but she called me the other day to tell me she was around and to arrange a meeting with me.
We went for coffee, had a long friendly conversation about what we were up to and then I accompanied her to the car. We hugged because she won't return for a few months again and just before she went away she kissed me on the lips. I wasn't expecting that at all and she drove away.
She knows I've wanted her for a long time but prefer to be her friend. However, I thought she was over me in regards to her teen crush.
I don't know what this means...
If I were you I would ask her directly"hey dudette , what's shakin, I noticed you kissed me the other day and it wasn't very plationic either. Let's talk it out."
The best way is the least complicated way. Life is passing you by. Why live in confusion and what ifs? But that's just me and this may or may not work for you. Good luck.
My female best friend was infatuated with me while we were teens but I ignored her advances at the time. Then I was the one who started to feel attracted to her and nowadays we have very platonic thing.
We both went to university and now she's a flight attendant while I'm still finishing my master's degree. She has a boyfriend that I've known for a few years as well.
We hadn't seen each for 7 months (she's working in another country) but she called me the other day to tell me she was around and to arrange a meeting with me.
We went for coffee, had a long friendly conversation about what we were up to and then I accompanied her to the car. We hugged because she won't return for a few months again and just before she went away she kissed me on the lips. I wasn't expecting that at all and she drove away.
She knows I've wanted her for a long time but prefer to be her friend. However, I thought she was over me in regards to her teen crush.
I don't know what this means...
This may be a custom in the country where she lives and she has picked it up.
You met
You talked
You hugged
You kissed
She left
The end
So then what difference does it make? Are you one for sloppy seconds?
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