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Old 03-17-2014, 02:09 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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You don't really know who you are dating. People present fronts that are illusions. Many of my clients married average women or average men, and that didn't stop the men or women from cheating or cutting the marriage off because they were ''bored'' or something better came along. Very few relationhips last a couple of years, how are relationships supposed to last a lifetime? People no longer die in their 30s.
Good points. Makes you wonder with how relationships fail these days, what chance do we have?
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Old 03-17-2014, 02:13 PM
 
Location: The Island of Misfit Toys
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We must be the same person. This is how I am. Sometimes it's good to be cautious.
I also forgot I wanted to say I think you're on the right track. Whether you wind up alone or with someone it will be right no matter which one because if you are with someone, it will be the right person, and if you're not with anyone, it is because you will not be with all those wrong people.
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Old 03-17-2014, 02:17 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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I also forgot I wanted to say I think you're on the right track. Whether you wind up alone or with someone it will be right no matter which one because if you are with someone, it will be the right person, and if you're not with anyone, it is because you will not be with all those wrong people.
I just wish I had a radar to detect who are good people and who are bad people.
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Old 03-17-2014, 02:26 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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I don't feel bad at all for this guy, he's just a judgmental kid. He's kind of doing women a favor by not dating.
Wait? How am I judgmental? And you don't have to feel bad for me, I'm 24 years old, I'm a grown ass man.
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Old 03-17-2014, 02:31 PM
 
Location: The Island of Misfit Toys
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I just wish I had a radar to detect who are good people and who are bad people.
The bad people are the ones that try to entangle you in their pursuit of money, materialism and whatever other addictions they OCD over.
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Old 03-17-2014, 02:39 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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The bad people are the ones that try to entangle you in their pursuit of money, materialism and whatever other addictions they OCD over.
A lot of people are like that.
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Old 03-17-2014, 05:19 PM
 
Location: If I tell you, will you visit?
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I don't get why people make such a big deal about kissing a girl lol.
WHAT?!!? That is written in all caps by the way!!!

How can you even ask that? What a turn on it is to kiss a woman. What a way to get juices going and sparks flyin....I'd give up a lot before I'd ever give up kissing!!
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Old 03-17-2014, 05:38 PM
 
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I havent.. im a pretty shy person so unless i get strong singlas fro ma women i assume shes not intersted and no women has evne show na slight interets in me that i could take asa sign..

Im not the type of person to try to convince a person who seems apathetic to me to like me if i dont see any recirporcation or signs of interest i dont pursue
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Old 03-17-2014, 05:47 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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WHAT?!!? That is written in all caps by the way!!!

How can you even ask that? What a turn on it is to kiss a woman. What a way to get juices going and sparks flyin....I'd give up a lot before I'd ever give up kissing!!
That is a great way to look at it.
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Old 03-17-2014, 06:03 PM
 
Location: Vail, CO
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I never really did until the last couple of years, I go on 2-3 dates a week now. Never done a cold approach but through OLD and women in/around my social circle I certainly ask them out.

Before then I was to focused on snowboarding and my career path to care about women, I had sex somewhat regularly with ONS from the bar, they approached me most of the time when I was drunk. Honestly, I don't think I ever once had sex while sober until 2012. I'm a pretty introverted guy and a little shy but getting over it slowly.

Kinda sad, but life's been good so far =)
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