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Does Middle school count? I wrote a dry email apologizing to her that I had an infatuation with her and basically said that this was most likely temporary and hormone driven. Predictably, it didn't go well.
Weak. If you're lonely, go hang out with friends. If you don't have friends, go make some. If you're not happy being single, go date.
If you don't want to do either then be cool with being alone.
These are all CHOICES. No reason to decide not to date, be unhappy with the decision, then whine about it on a forum. It makes no sense whatsoever.
Easy for those who know how to do it. For those who don't it's not as easy as just breathing. Might as well tell a fox to just go out there and fly.
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Originally Posted by timberline742
Because it is fun! Wow, what do you think dating is? It is going out and spending time with someone. It's just like making a friend, you go to movies, see bands, hiking, talking, laughing, eating... so if you don't develop feelings for them so what? Then you stop hanging out with that person and move on. This isn't rocket science, dating is just getting to know someone. Simple.
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I'll have to take your word that dating is fun. There's that little thing though where it involves someone else wanting to spend time with.
Easy for those who know how to do it. For those who don't it's not as easy as just breathing.
Horse crap!
I see from your ability to type a thought out in this thread, that you do know how to communicate a thought. That is all you need! You just go out and ask somebody who you are attracted to, out! Period. It is that easy. You may get rejected, but they are only words. Words only stain if you let them. You get a no, move on to the next one. What is to know?!?
I see from your ability to type a thought out in this thread, that you do know how to communicate a thought. That is all you need! You just go out and ask somebody who you are attracted to, out! Period. It is that easy. You may get rejected, but they are only words. Words only stain if you let them. You get a no, move on to the next one. What is to know?!?
Easier said than done. Some people are shy and want to do that they just can't. Can you understand that or do you just not care?
I guess I don't understand. I thrive I being the underdog. There have been just to many examples in my life, that when all the chips are down, I thrive. I don't know how or why, but I do. So I guess when it comes down to not being able to do something as easy and rewarding as talking to a woman, I don't understand.
You aren't trying to apply for a CEO position, or get top clearance for a government agency, you are trying to communicate with a female.
There are too many options that give people the opportunity to meet with other individuals for me to understand not being able to do it.
If you let something control you, like the fear you feel over this issue, what other things will you end up cheating yourself out of in life?
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