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Old 03-17-2014, 07:06 PM
 
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Just do online dating.
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Old 03-17-2014, 07:29 PM
 
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Give yourself the freedom to think of yourself as a grownup woman instead of a girl and the answers may come easier to you.
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Old 03-17-2014, 07:39 PM
 
Location: The point of no return, er, NorCal
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Be straightforward and upfront? There's an original thought.
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Old 03-18-2014, 06:18 AM
 
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urgh. That is easy said than done. How can I go up to a guy and say: hey I like you. That sounds scary and horrendous to me!
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Old 03-18-2014, 07:03 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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urgh. That is easy said than done. How can I go up to a guy and say: hey I like you. That sounds scary and horrendous to me!
Then you aren't ready to date.
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Old 03-18-2014, 07:35 AM
 
Location: Michigan
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Follow these steps in order while standing on the side of him.

1: Look at him until he notices you staring (staring at him like you want to mount him.. bedroom eyes)
2: smile.. not toothy just a small smile.
3. look him up and down ONCE USING JUST YOUR EYES (not your whole head).
4. Take your hand opposite to him and cross it over your chest to your neck giving it a slight rub.
5. Take a deep breath instantly with your hand still on your neck.
6. Turn your head to the front (not facing him) and give a blushing type smile letting a small breath.
7. Drop hand.
8. Continue going about your day

The process from the time he looks at you should be about 5 seconds... don't look rushed.
Trust me. I perfected this look 7yrs ago, I learned it from the women in my family and it has successfully worked for generations. I've taught a few friends and well... lets just say that a few kids should thank me for being born.

Then again.. I've never written it down, so hopefully you can figure out how it's suppose to look.
But be careful... the power can go to your head.
Are you a god?
Was slightly attracted just listening to this.
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Old 03-18-2014, 08:00 AM
 
Location: Michigan
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Women really don't have to put out signals. Just be friendly and make an effort to befriend a guy. 99% of the time, he'll assume you are interested in him. You have to remember, men almost never bother trying to befriend women unless they have a romantic and/or sexual motive. I mean, almost never. Most guys you go out of your way to be nice to will read that as romantic interest, because that is what it would mean if they were doing it.
Unless you're me and 99% of your friends are girls and the other 1% is the type that I date (Psycho's mostly)
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Old 03-18-2014, 08:21 AM
 
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Start slow with small talk and pick up steam. If she likes animals, get her talking about her cat or her puppies or whatever.
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Old 03-19-2014, 03:28 AM
 
Location: I don't know..If you find me, let me know.
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Smile, eye contact, give he compliment, make her laugh, help her... But the better way is ask he directly because if you give her signal so it will take time to turn in to relationship so when you feel that she is responding you that time you can ask her..
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Old 03-19-2014, 04:19 AM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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This works on me. Couldn't be more clear:

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