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Old 03-20-2014, 09:56 AM
 
Location: Southeast Arizona
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I tried talking to Shayla just as friends, she blocked me, everything. Won't talk to me.

I just don't understand, even during times where she frustrated me I wouldn't have dared treated her like that. Yeah, so she doesn't feel it for me anymore, and she became indifferent and meaner in the last few weeks. I just wanted to talk it out.

She didn't love me, even though she said she did. That move to Idaho damned everything from the very beginning.
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Old 03-20-2014, 10:00 AM
 
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No one is really named "Shayla".
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Old 03-20-2014, 10:01 AM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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I tried talking to Shayla just as friends, she blocked me, everything. Won't talk to me.

I just don't understand, even during times where she frustrated me I wouldn't have dared treated her like that. Yeah, so she doesn't feel it for me anymore, and she became indifferent and meaner in the last few weeks. I just wanted to talk it out.

She didn't love me, even though she said she did. That move to Idaho damned everything from the very beginning.
That sucks dude. Just wait, give it 4-6 months and she'll be back trying to talk and be buddy buddy.

Forget her, there's always someone better, even if it doesn't seem like it.
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Old 03-20-2014, 10:07 AM
 
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I tried talking to Shayla just as friends, she blocked me, everything. Won't talk to me.

I just don't understand, even during times where she frustrated me I wouldn't have dared treated her like that. Yeah, so she doesn't feel it for me anymore, and she became indifferent and meaner in the last few weeks. I just wanted to talk it out.

She didn't love me, even though she said she did. That move to Idaho damned everything from the very beginning.
You'll be OK, just give it time. Once someone has become indifferent, they aren't coming back.
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Old 03-20-2014, 10:09 AM
 
Location: Hampton Roads
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Let go. From your collective of posts, the relationship sounded one-sided and you're sounding like a creeper.
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Old 03-20-2014, 10:10 AM
 
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Meh. Take a lesson from dogs. Kick some grass over that smell and move on.
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Old 03-20-2014, 10:10 AM
 
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Gosh I feel for ya, kid..
I'm going through the same thing here-
on so many levels.....
I finally realized I deserve
better & so do you.
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Old 03-20-2014, 10:23 AM
 
Location: Mountains of Oregon
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"What goes around, comes around"......karma......all her days will not be rosy.

"Do unto others, as you would have them do unto you"
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Old 03-20-2014, 10:25 AM
 
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I tried talking to Shayla just as friends, she blocked me, everything. Won't talk to me.

I just don't understand, even during times where she frustrated me I wouldn't have dared treated her like that. Yeah, so she doesn't feel it for me anymore, and she became indifferent and meaner in the last few weeks. I just wanted to talk it out.

She didn't love me, even though she said she did. That move to Idaho damned everything from the very beginning.
I'm sorry you're upset but it definitely sounds like Shayla has moved on. You should too.

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No one is really named "Shayla".
I used to know one, so they do exist!
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Old 03-20-2014, 10:27 AM
 
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Buddy, go work on yourself and forget about this girl. Do you! Don't be codependent!
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