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Old 04-05-2014, 06:37 PM
 
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I ask this question because I'm 25 and I see plenty of attractive women around my age dating guys who are losers/drug dealers/etc...


Does this change when women get a little bit older and start looking for somebody to settle down with? I ask because I'm a 25 year old guy doing very well for myself and on a great track for the rest of my life but I don't think it has helped me at all in regards to dating


For guys out there in similar position to me, did you notice more success when you were older?
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Old 04-05-2014, 06:42 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I never noticed more "attention" from women as I got older and more advanced in my career... part of it is that I didn't dress the part, I'm a t-shirt and jeans kind of dude and have always drove non-descript cars until the last couple of yrs,

I look like a biker guy to some extent, long hair goatee and jeans... so that may have contributed to that... even though I out earn a lot of my peers.......
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Old 04-05-2014, 06:43 PM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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I wouldn't worry too much about those chicks. Odds are, they are losers/druggies/etc themselves.
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Old 04-05-2014, 07:06 PM
 
Location: Vail, CO
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I ask this question because I'm 25 and I see plenty of attractive women around my age dating guys who are losers/drug dealers/etc...


Does this change when women get a little bit older and start looking for somebody to settle down with? I ask because I'm a 25 year old guy doing very well for myself and on a great track for the rest of my life but I don't think it has helped me at all in regards to dating


For guys out there in similar position to me, did you notice more success when you were older?


Losers/Drug dealers have a lot more time to be with women than guys like you who are building a foundation for life. I find it very difficult to find time for dating, but I've made it a priority this year.

I can't comment on the latter because I never really tried when I was younger. My focus was elsewhere.
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Old 04-05-2014, 07:07 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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The thing is people with real wealth don't always show it... I'm not saying I got wealth, cause I don't, but I know I've got a lot more money in the bank than anyone else I know.

Stop watching so much reality TV... people with real cash aren't blinging like you think they are...
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Old 04-05-2014, 07:07 PM
 
Location: Helsinki, Finland
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Some women never change. They go after these losers year after year. Although they are being mistreated over and over again. I would not seriously pursue women like this at all and let someone in my life with a history of convict bf's, drug dealers, child support court, baby father drama and blah, blah, blah.
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Old 04-05-2014, 07:12 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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The thing is people with real wealth don't always show it... I'm not saying I got wealth, cause I don't, but I know I've got a lot more money in the bank than anyone else I know.

Stop watching so much reality TV... people with real cash aren't blinging like you think they are...
If the 20-something guys here would just listen to you and others like you
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Old 04-05-2014, 07:20 PM
 
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The thing is people with real wealth don't always show it... I'm not saying I got wealth, cause I don't, but I know I've got a lot more money in the bank than anyone else I know.

Stop watching so much reality TV... people with real cash aren't blinging like you think they are...


not really true. I know plenty of millionaires and most of them have big houses and nice cars


Not to say that you can't be smart with your money and still have nice toys. I drive an Audi but still save 2-3K a month
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Old 04-05-2014, 07:22 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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    Why wouldn't you want to dress like a baller/drive a baller car brah?
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I just bought my Audi A5 this year. Awesome car... going to upgrade to an A8 in a few years

Do you actually believe having a decent car is going to help your dating?

Well, obviously, it hasn't been working for you, Lol
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Old 04-05-2014, 07:23 PM
 
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Do you actually believe having a decent car is going to help your dating?

Well, obviously, it hasn't been working for you, Lol

LOL women know nothing about cars. More guys are impressed by my car than women



Very similar to when you get real big in the gym
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