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Location: Went around the corner & now I'm lost!!!!
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Originally Posted by 49ersfan27
Just because I am on my own doesn't mean I am sad. If I meet that special woman, I'll ask her out. But for now, I'm solo.
Well, one thing I noticed which is a great positive about you and the OP; you stand your ground when you are criticized on this forum. This let's me know that you two are NOT weak men....most women love strong men. But there is a group that doesn't like strong men. They are the "Dansel in Distress" manipulator/ control freak; they DO NOT like strong men...can't control you for their use.
Good...two strong men That is not you two issues because it takes time to develop strength.
49er--27:
You are not desperate either. Because you identified the DIFFERENCE between being "alone" and being "lonely"...two totally different things IMHO
OK Ladies, pay attention here to 49er--27!!!!!! He is raking in the attraction points. Remember I said it the little things that show the most??? He demonstrated a lot here
I know I always avoid talking to attractive women, god forbid they like what i have to say then want to have sex with me. The guy from the Publisher's Clearing House came to my house yesterday with the big $10 million check and i threw him down my porch steps.
This! People act like I need to ask out 100 women in a week. I am not desperate at all.
What I see is that you realize that there is more to life than the opposite sex. It seems like the others that were ragging on you were the ones that were making a big deal out of your relationship status.
What I see is that you realize that there is more to life than the opposite sex. It seems like the others that were ragging on you were the ones that were making a big deal out of your relationship status.
Note that I said it "seems" like.
I agree with you. I am in no hurry to get a girlfriend at all.
This, it's all about their demeanor to me. If they have a friendly demeanor, don't look that busy (texting or looking around) and intrigue me in some way, I am likely to approach them now that I am breaking out of my shell.
I don't. Chances are likely that she's taken. Chances are likely that only men she wouldn't be interested in are talking to her, and she wishes that the guys who avoid talking to her would talk to her.
Do you mean did I avoid talking to women *I* think are attractive, or avoid talking to women SOCIETY says I should find attractive, because they're not my personal cup of tea?
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That is not you two issues because it takes time to develop strength.
...good bye to you all, life is calling me 
