Hypothetical question for the women… If you had a reason to, would you be capable of kicking your husband or boyfriend's butt? Does it matter to you or your relationship? Are you disappointed or just don't care either way?
I have no doubt my wife could kick my butt if she wanted to, thankfully she doesn't and we get along great
She is an ex college athlete, in very good shape and has been in a few fights when she was younger against both girls and guys. She grew up in a family with older brothers who taught her to defend herself and she's just naturally good at it. Looking at her, you would never guess it. She is 5'4, 120 and looks harmless.
Me? I am taller and stronger but she is in much better shape and has much better endurance. I've also NEVER been in a fight. It just never happened.
The bottom line is, if something happened to us and we were forced to defend ourselves from harm, I would definitely have her back and do my best but realistically she'd be much more capable than I ever would.
I can learn to defend myself of course but that takes years of time and dedication while I have a career that
demands most of my time and energy as it is. She's in the same boat! She is taking night classes in addition to work. She barely has time to squeeze in exercise. This is something she learned and developed when she was younger and now it is just second nature, it's maintenance. I'd be starting from ground zero.
I know it's 2014 and guys and girls can do all sorts of different things. Some better than others. I know that gender roles or stereotypes are a relic of the past but it is part of how I grew up. The man was supposed to
be the one who could protect his wife if needed.
I don't think she cares either way and it's never been an issue but I'm just curious about other couples who might have the same dynamic. Are you a woman who thinks she could fight better than her BF or hubby if she had to? Do you care or is it an issue with you, even maybe subconsciously?
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