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I kind of brought up the issue late last night and his response was...He is really into me and takes sex very seriously with me. He doesn't want to potentially be a hit it and quit it and wants it to be done at the right time.
Something is up with him. Or not, as the case may be.
Like me and other people said he could be a virgin or very inexperienced in the bedroom. I know for me being inexperienced if i liked a girl i would not wait 3 months . I would have anxiety having sex with a girl i liked for the first time . That is why they invented Xanax for bars of them and i all set anxiety all gone. NTW not to brag i am just above average if you know what i mean .
OP, I might agree with the people who say he could be a virgin/religious/insecure about his sexual performance if he keeps insisting that he's abstaining for YOUR benefit even after you communicate that's not want you want from him.
OP, I might agree with the people who say he could be a virgin/religious/insecure about his sexual performance if he keeps insisting that he's abstaining for YOUR benefit even after you communicate that's not want you want from him.
I've been seeing a guy for almost 3 months. In the beginning he did tell me he doesn't want to rush sex because he respects me. We've pretty much been seeing each other rather platonically. We both like each other very much and want the same thing, to date to be married, eventually.
Anyway, we've progressed a little.. We've spent 2 nights together and it was great. We cuddled and he did some pleasing along with oral. It was him just wanting to please me without sex.
This is weird to me because the guys I've dated in the past wouldn't be able to withhold and would've at least tried to have sex. But he hasn't and I really like and respect that. I've always said I want it to be special with the man that's going to be my husband. Maybe he will be , maybe he won't. I don't know.
I don't know if maybe he's just not that into me to try or he truly respects me and doesn't want sex to ruin whatever it is we have going on.
One more thing I need help on is last week he said he's been doing a lot of thinking about us and where we could potentially end up. I feel at this point he should have an idea. I asked him to elaborate but he wouldn't. Should I bring up that topic and asked what his future intentions are or just go with the flow and let him bring it up again. I don't want to waste my time he he's still unsure. I also want to have the exclusivity talk but I feel that's a mans job and may put pressure on him.
He's not acting thirsty that's all! As far as bringing that topic up again probably not a good idea cause he's aware of what you want to discuss, so maybe within time he will bring it up.
Honey, I'm beginning to see why he hasn't slept with you. He's afraid to put his d*ck in crazy. Good grief!
I didn't know this was a popular saying, my girl friends say I do this all the time or that I make the sane ones crazy.
I bet you were a bit crazy in your younger years! All women are crazy lol
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NTW not to brag i am just above average if you know what i mean .
