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Old 03-23-2014, 05:28 PM
 
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Originally Posted by burgler09 View Post
That's lame as hell. Guys should get the number, ask out the girl and take charge.

Guys should learn to be men and not act like a nervous 15 year old nerd in high school.

This isn't the woman's job in the early stages of dating, a guy should do that.

Very true buddy.

Some guys can pull off giving the woman his number, but most can't.
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Old 03-23-2014, 05:28 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Yeah, the OP is a total creep and is clearly harassing* this woman.

Anyways, OP, charge it to the game. Pay her no mind and move to the next one. I wouldn't acknowledge it regardless if she brings it up or not. I'd never want to hook up/date someone I work with, even if she was PT.

The OP wasn't rejected, the OP rejected himself. Who the hell whines because a girl didn't text back for 3 full hours. Who actually tells the girl to call like that? Come on, everything about this thread is pathetic.
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Old 03-23-2014, 05:29 PM
 
Location: Florida
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THAT IS THE EXACT REASON WHY SO MANY NICE GUYS END UP BECOMING DOGS AND WOMANIZERS.
Well that is a stupid reason that they become dogs and womanizers.

IF I give a guy my number and he texts I will respond. IF they ask me to go out I might depending on how I feel that day. Sometimes I have made plans with girlfriends to watch a movie or go out with them. I am not going to blow off my girlfriends for a date.
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Old 03-23-2014, 05:29 PM
 
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Originally Posted by burgler09 View Post
That's lame as hell. Guys should get the number, ask out the girl and take charge.

Guys should learn to be men and not act like a nervous 15 year old nerd in high school.

This isn't the woman's job in the early stages of dating, a guy should do that.
I agree.
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Old 03-23-2014, 05:30 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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I think you should have taken advantage of the time you get to see her at work and talked to her more there in order to establish more of a connection with her, then progressed to going to lunch with her on weekdays, then dates outside of work.

I agree here, someone you work with isn't picking like picking up a girl you meet at the library.

EDIT: We both agreed at the same time. Twins?
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Old 03-23-2014, 05:35 PM
 
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Did you have a phone conversation with her?
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Old 03-23-2014, 05:36 PM
 
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I agree here, someone you work with isn't picking like picking up a girl you meet at the library.

EDIT: We both agreed at the same time. Twins?
Fraternal.
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Old 03-23-2014, 05:36 PM
 
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The OP wasn't rejected, the OP rejected himself. Who the hell whines because a girl didn't text back for 3 full hours. Who actually tells the girl to call like that? Come on, everything about this thread is pathetic.

Pathetic?? LOL.

I have already "charged her to the game" as some of you guys say it.

Looking for some interesting convo. Thanks for adding.
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Old 03-23-2014, 05:39 PM
 
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I am not going to blow off my girlfriends for a date.

You would if you were TRULY INTERESTED in the guy.
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Old 03-23-2014, 05:39 PM
 
Location: H-Tine, Texas
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The OP wasn't rejected, the OP rejected himself. Who the hell whines because a girl didn't text back for 3 full hours. Who actually tells the girl to call like that? Come on, everything about this thread is pathetic.
I think you and srjth make great points - he probably should've gotten to know her a little better first, but instead he went in cold and really wasn't assertive about his plans, so I'm not too surprised about what happened.

However, it is really annoying when someone takes forever and a day to respond via text/call, especially when you're trying to make plans, and then you don't even get an acknowledgement after (sorry, I was 'xyz').
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