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Old 04-26-2014, 11:45 AM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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That is correct but it will end the friend ships none the less. That is like saying that if I stand in fire its my fault because my feet are not fire proof rather than just not standing in the fire.
I have no idea what you're talking about. I just know I'm a man who is happy to have been friends with many women over the years.
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Old 04-26-2014, 12:11 PM
 
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Who cares it could be good as long as they don't have baby or wedding fever.
So I shouldn't care if it's real as long as they don't have a baby or wedding fever? Tell that to the men who lost half of their money and house or the man stuck paying child support for kids that aren't his.
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Old 04-26-2014, 12:17 PM
 
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As far as im concerned if I was still trying to date I would only want to date a virgin women as im a virgin myself. A women who says she is okay with my virginity must not have options because the five women I told this told everyone I was gay or weird.
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Old 04-26-2014, 07:35 PM
 
Location: In the middle.
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I think the complaint is that women cherrypick and 'use' men to meet their wants and desires, sometimes to the chagrin and dismay of men who perceive themselves as being used and as not getting equal value. (This perception may or may not be legitimate.)

Over the years I've done enough reading (in classes and later in researching what broadly might be considered social service practice or anti-poverty work including legislation). A theme which stands out to the casual reader holds that men are regarded by women as 'resources' e.g. money, labor, attention. Hot men in this context might get sex in the deal, but men who are not hot typically merely get exploited for the material and labor resources they bring to the table.
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But women aren't shallow!
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Old 04-28-2014, 10:52 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
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for me what i'm bitter about is that I never have gotten to experience going on a vacation with a girl, traveling with a girl while in my early 20's
You know you can do that by yourself right? Society wants you to think you need a woman in your life. Realistically, you don't.
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Old 04-28-2014, 11:12 AM
 
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I politely and respectfully disagree with the premise that female friendship is a suitable and fulfilling alternative to a guy who is unable to find a g/f. The two are really like apples and oranges. I have found it is a lot easier by far to try to find female friends, but only specifically after I have aready found love. The problem with female friends in the absense of a g/f is, many times if a guy is girlfriend-less, he may begin to start falling for the female friend(s) in question, which then becomes rather messy for all parties in the equation, especially if the female friend doesn't feel the same. (*Please note: I am not talking here about guys who want to be friends from the beginning plus with a hidden agenda at the outset of being more than friends, but guys who truly and did genuinely want to be a girl's friend from the start, but because she was also so nice, etc. to him, he eventually ended up falling for her, later on into the friendship.)

A woman's friendship is a very good thing don't get me wrong lol, but friendship itself and alone is incomparable to a woman's heart and true romantic affections.
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Old 05-12-2014, 03:16 PM
 
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You know you can do that by yourself right? Society wants you to think you need a woman in your life. Realistically, you don't.
ya but I want to be able to experience this with women while i'm young
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Old 05-12-2014, 11:57 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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ya but I want to be able to experience this with women while i'm young
Well I can understand that. I'm just used to doing whatever I want and answering to nobody.
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Old 05-13-2014, 12:43 AM
 
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I doubt it as I find inexperience males tend to be the ones that are quite bitter, resentful, and misogynistic towards gals solely/mainly desiring sex and seem to be quite hostile/antagonistic about nonsexual female contact labeling it being used as an emotional tampon, stuck in the friend zone, etc.

You honestly think too much of yourself.
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Old 05-13-2014, 01:02 AM
 
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You honestly think too much of yourself.


You want it bad. Ice cream on your plate
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