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Old 03-28-2014, 12:07 PM
 
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We're in our 40s, and still, whenever I have a GYN appointment, he asks questions about it, makes jokes about it, and even seems oddly turned on by it. It's like a annual freaking holiday for immature jokes.

I always get comments like:
Does it feel good?
How do you not get turned on?
Were her fingers cold?
Oooh, I'm jealous!
Does she take off her rings?

I can joke around as much as anyone, and I can appreciate silly humor, but come on, hasn't it gotten old by now? Yes, once a year we women go to a doctor or nurse who looks at our "parts" and yes, our feet go up in stirrups. Every single joke that could be made about is had been made, and every joke was "old" 25 years ago.

He could be an educated, upstanding professional, but you mention a GYN appointment, and suddenly he's Beavis & Butthead giggling like a 14 year old.

Women, do your guys act like this?
Do they grow out of it?
Guys, really, what's the fascination?

 
Old 03-28-2014, 12:21 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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I've never had any such fascination. I feel bad for my SOs that they have to deal with such things (though I figure prostate exams are coming up...) and when that time comes I'm once again glad I'm a guy.
 
Old 03-28-2014, 12:31 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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No.
 
Old 03-28-2014, 12:44 PM
 
Location: Virginia Beach, VA
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Originally Posted by Larry_Sellers View Post

Invite him to play "doctor," it could be a lot of fun.
I briefly dated a nurse. She like to "examine" me. At first I thought it was fun, but something about it sort of creeped me out after a while.
 
Old 03-28-2014, 01:18 PM
 
Location: California
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Sounds icky. I'd keep my appointments to myself to avoid having to deal with his childish jokes.
 
Old 03-28-2014, 01:19 PM
 
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Not even close!
 
Old 03-28-2014, 01:21 PM
 
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Originally Posted by TracySam View Post
We're in our 40s, and still, whenever I have a GYN appointment, he asks questions about it, makes jokes about it, and even seems oddly turned on by it. It's like a annual freaking holiday for immature jokes.

I always get comments like:
Does it feel good?
How do you not get turned on?
Were her fingers cold?
Oooh, I'm jealous!
Does she take off her rings?

I can joke around as much as anyone, and I can appreciate silly humor, but come on, hasn't it gotten old by now? Yes, once a year we women go to a doctor or nurse who looks at our "parts" and yes, our feet go up in stirrups. Every single joke that could be made about is had been made, and every joke was "old" 25 years ago.

He could be an educated, upstanding professional, but you mention a GYN appointment, and suddenly he's Beavis & Butthead giggling like a 14 year old.

Women, do your guys act like this?
Do they grow out of it?
Guys, really, what's the fascination?
Why don't you invite him to accompany you so that he can see just how much fun it really is?
 
Old 03-28-2014, 01:33 PM
 
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Wow, So far, it looks like I'm alone here. I was thinking that a lot of guys must be this immature, but I guess it's just him!
 
Old 03-28-2014, 01:37 PM
 
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Same difference, really.
 
Old 03-28-2014, 01:50 PM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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Quote:
Originally Posted by TracySam View Post
We're in our 40s, and still, whenever I have a GYN appointment, he asks questions about it, makes jokes about it, and even seems oddly turned on by it. It's like a annual freaking holiday for immature jokes.

I always get comments like:
Does it feel good?
How do you not get turned on?
Were her fingers cold?
Oooh, I'm jealous!
Does she take off her rings?

I can joke around as much as anyone, and I can appreciate silly humor, but come on, hasn't it gotten old by now? Yes, once a year we women go to a doctor or nurse who looks at our "parts" and yes, our feet go up in stirrups. Every single joke that could be made about is had been made, and every joke was "old" 25 years ago.

He could be an educated, upstanding professional, but you mention a GYN appointment, and suddenly he's Beavis & Butthead giggling like a 14 year old.

Women, do your guys act like this?
Do they grow out of it?
Guys, really, what's the fascination?
My husband never acted like that. My Ob-GYN was a male and my husband never made comments or asked silly questions like that. In fact, one time I was telling him how cold the speculum was but he had no idea what I was talking about so I was trying to explain it. Then I Googled a picture for him. That's when he shuddered and said, "I don't want to know."

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