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Old 03-27-2014, 12:09 PM
 
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I'd like to get some perspective on this. I met a lady back on Mardi Gras day (3/4) and we hit it off really well that evening. We've been on two more dinner dates since then that I felt went well. I really enjoyed her company and I would be interested in a relationship with this woman.

The problem is that things don't seem to be progressing properly. We've made out with each other during each date but she doesn't invite me inside afterwards. I don't want to waste my time. I'm thinking she is "on the fence" with me and probably is seeing someone else also. Is it time to write this off yet?
You should have told her upfront before the first date what your expectations were.

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Old 03-27-2014, 12:19 PM
 
Location: between Mars and Venus
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Forget about her. You need to find someone who will have sex with you on the first date.
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Old 03-27-2014, 12:20 PM
 
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I'd like to get some perspective on this. I met a lady back on Mardi Gras day (3/4) and we hit it off really well that evening. We've been on two more dinner dates since then that I felt went well. I really enjoyed her company and I would be interested in a relationship with this woman.

The problem is that things don't seem to be progressing properly. We've made out with each other during each date but she doesn't invite me inside afterwards. I don't want to waste my time. I'm thinking she is "on the fence" with me and probably is seeing someone else also. Is it time to write this off yet?
I would definitely at least try to smash and hit that once, if I were you. LOL.
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Old 03-27-2014, 12:35 PM
 
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You should have told her upfront before the first date what your expectations were.
Yea because thats a good idea, maybe if your channing tatum lol. I get there are prostitutes on craiglist but no one should be in a hurry to use them.
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Old 03-27-2014, 12:39 PM
 
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Forget about her. You need to find someone who will have sex with you on the first date.

And where would one find such a person?
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Old 03-27-2014, 12:45 PM
 
Location: Montreal, Quebec
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I'd like to get some perspective on this. I met a lady back on Mardi Gras day (3/4) and we hit it off really well that evening. We've been on two more dinner dates since then that I felt went well. I really enjoyed her company and I would be interested in a relationship with this woman.

The problem is that things don't seem to be progressing properly. We've made out with each other during each date but she doesn't invite me inside afterwards. I don't want to waste my time. I'm thinking she is "on the fence" with me and probably is seeing someone else also. Is it time to write this off yet?
Maybe she's a hoarder. Invite her to your place.
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Old 03-27-2014, 12:46 PM
 
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And where would one find such a person?
We need to start color-coding people. The people who are open to sex on the first date could wear shades of red, maroon, orange, or pink. The people who have a 3-date rule could wear shades of blue. The people who prefer to take things slowly could wear shades of green or aqua. And the not-before-marriage crowd could wear lavender and purple tones. It would make things so much simpler!
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Old 03-27-2014, 12:50 PM
 
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Maybe she's a hoarder. Invite her to your place.
Ya know, I didn't even think of that. There could be things in her house she doesn't want the OP to see. Junk. Filth. Forty-three cats and twice as many stuffed animals. A husband. Bodies.
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Old 03-27-2014, 12:52 PM
 
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We need to start color-coding people. The people who are open to sex on the first date could wear shades of red, maroon, orange, or pink. The people who have a 3-date rule could wear shades of blue. The people who prefer to take things slowly could wear shades of green or aqua. And the not-before-marriage crowd could wear lavender and purple tones. It would make things so much simpler!
That didn't work the first time. Ask Hester Prynne.
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Old 03-27-2014, 12:52 PM
 
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And where would one find such a person?
You find women who are super excited you are interested in them. They are not always the best looking but they do ANYTHING in bed. Once you find one dont let her go.
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