Getting stared at (friend, average, looking, brother)

[J.P.]

Originally Posted by Ruth4Truth

Yeah, grilling your friends and giving them dirty looks is over the top. Was she already acquainted with your friends, or did she approach them as strangers, and submit them to the FBI interrogation?

Your friends should tell her that the info she's soliciting from them is none of her business, and to back off. Your friends should be able to stand up for themselves, and draw their own boundaries. If they can be assertive with her, that should take care of it. Hopefully.

She hasn't approached at all. Just stares and stares and says nothing. Dirty looks and staring, but not a word out of her mouth.

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by J.P.

She hasn't approached at all. Just stares and stares and says nothing. Dirty looks and staring, but not a word out of her mouth.

I'm even more confused...you said in your first post she was "grilling" people??

Which is it??

[Molli]

Originally Posted by J.P.

She hasn't approached at all. Just stares and stares and says nothing. Dirty looks and staring, but not a word out of her mouth.

Take out your phone and film her and put it on youtube! haha

[J.P.]

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

I'm even more confused...you said in your first post she was "grilling" people??

Grilling as in dirty looks, yes.

[Carrie_Anne]

Where does all this happen?

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by J.P.

Grilling as in dirty looks, yes.

Just FYI, "grilling" usually means a barrage of questions, not "dirty looks".

[J.P.]

Originally Posted by Carrie_Anne

Where does all this happen?

Bowling alley. With her family there too.

[J.P.]

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

Just FYI, "grilling" usually means a barrage of questions, not "dirty looks".

I've only been here 5 years, so my slang isn't always up to date. We really don't use that term in Canada. Apologies.

[Ruth4Truth]

Originally Posted by J.P.

She hasn't approached at all. Just stares and stares and says nothing. Dirty looks and staring, but not a word out of her mouth.

You said she "grilled" your friends. Oh, I see. She just shoots daggers at your friends, with her eyes.

Well, everyone should just ignore her, then. In time, this phase will pass.

[JustJulia]

Originally Posted by J.P.

She hasn't approached at all. Just stares and stares and says nothing. Dirty looks and staring, but not a word out of her mouth.

Okay, that's not grilling. That word means quizzing, questioning, etc. Maybe you mean glaring.

Why will you lose your cool telling her to quit it?