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I'm not a man, but I'll suggest you act as if you're not even bothered by the rejection. Hi/bye, but don't go out your way to ignore her and certainly don't go out your way to notice her.
I'm not a man, but I'll suggest you act as if you're not even bothered by the rejection. Hi/bye, but don't go out your way to ignore her and certainly don't go out your way to notice her.
When I say I ignore her, I completely forget about her and act like she doesn't exist. It works.
I know guys get rejected more than women. This might sound like sour grapes on my part but if a woman rejected me I would avoid her and never speak to her again. Actually, I have done that 3 times. It would be awkward. Besides, who wants to be around the person who rejected them? I don't. To the men here, would you avoid a woman who rejected you?
I've certainly felt the awkwardness you are describing. But part of being a grown up human being is being able to hear the word "no" without falling apart or pouting or acting passive-aggressive about it. That just makes you look weak and immature. Rejection is part of life. The more graciously you handle it, the better.
She wasn't polite or cool to me. Why should I take the high road?
Successful people don't ask questions like this. They just do the right thing.
Honestly, every time you type something on this forum it just wreaks of weakness. I don't understand how you don't go through your posts and say "man, I need to change my life"
I know guys get rejected more than women. This might sound like sour grapes on my part but if a woman rejected me I would avoid her and never speak to her again. Actually, I have done that 3 times. It would be awkward. Besides, who wants to be around the person who rejected them? I don't. To the men here, would you avoid a woman who rejected you?
I'm a female. Based on your posts, you are so negative it's no wonder you aren't in a relationship(though you say you don't want to be in one and want to focus on school, which is fine). Don't blame the opposite sex for where you are relationship wise, which is alone.
Nothing pisses entitled american women off more than when they see a man with either an asian or phillipino woman who they brought to the USA. Every guy that does this is one less guy off her spread sheet of guys to sort through, if enough guys do this then the american women will have to be humble and wont be able to afford to do so much rejecting.
I'm a female. Based on your posts, you are so negative it's no wonder you aren't in a relationship(though you say you don't want to be in one and want to focus on school, which is fine). Don't blame the opposite sex for where you are relationship wise, which is alone.
I am focusing on school now. I am talking about past rejections.
Nothing pisses entitled american women off more than when they see a man with either an asian or phillipino woman who they brought to the USA. Every guy that does this is one less guy off her spread sheet of guys to sort through, if enough guys do this then the american women will have to be humble and wont be able to afford to do so much rejecting.
You're about to be called bitter for this comment. Just giving you a heads up.
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