He doesn't want to delete pics of the girl he dated (dating, woman)
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The pics with her in them would not be my issue but the fact that he lied about her and this would cause me to think he might be lying about not sleeping with her... Always best be truthful, since you two were broken up, it been better for him been honest...
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Honestly you are overreacting... Because when i was in relationship with my second girlfriend that time I kept picture of my ex girlfriend in my mobile, and she didn't have any problem for that.. so stop overreacting and just try to ignore it...
You need to do some serious reflection to see where your insecurity is coming from.
Did he break up with you? If so, then you're holding on to a fear that he'll do it again. Were you easy to replace? If you think so, then you need to work on your self esteem. Did he have fun with someone else and it hurts? That's jealousy.
Maybe you need to step back a little and think deeply. It's you, not him. It's a tough concept to accept, but you can only control how you react to this problem. You can't control your boyfriend or his past.
And maybe you need to simply dwell on more immediate topics and leave his business to him.
OP, young lady, take a few revealing shots of yourself and the next time he want's the nookie throw them in his lap and say "if your're so fond of pics, enjoy those because you ain't getting the real thing until you lose those trip pics with the tramp". And don't listen to the nonsense about you being insecure. Insecurity is sticking around and putting up with his BS that makes you unhappy. You're not asking him to climb Everest or swim the Atlantic...just ditch the pics, it's a reasonable request.
OP, young lady, take a few revealing shots of yourself and the next time he want's the nookie throw them in his lap and say "if your're so fond of pics, enjoy those because you ain't getting the real thing until you lose those trip pics with the tramp". And don't listen to the nonsense about you being insecure. Insecurity is sticking around and putting up with his BS that makes you unhappy. You're not asking him to climb Everest or swim the Atlantic...just ditch the pics, it's a reasonable request.
It is absolutely insecurity for her to be jealous and upset over a few photos and it is not BS that he keeps them. That trip, the girl and those photos are a part of his past. If she cannot accept a part of his past that does not include her then he may as well delete every photo of every life event he had before he met her because that is what she is asking him to do. So no more baby pictures, childhood birthday parties, pictures of Grandma and Grandpa, Mom & Dad's wedding, his birth, his siblings birth, childhood and high school accomplishments, etc. etc
It is beyond idiotic to want those photos deleted and if she keeps it up he may decide he is tired of her jealous, irrational, childish behavior and dig those photos out and find that girl and leave this one behind in her own self made misery.
Also, who are you to say that the girl in the photos is a "Tramp"? They were broke up when all of this happened and I bet if she had met someone while they were broke up she would have done the exact same thing. If she did does that mean that the original poster is a "tramp" as well?
PS ~~ Using sex as a weapon in a relationship almost guarantees that relationship will last about as long as it takes him to find that other girl.
OP, young lady, take a few revealing shots of yourself and the next time he want's the nookie throw them in his lap and say "if your're so fond of pics, enjoy those because you ain't getting the real thing until you lose those trip pics with the tramp". And don't listen to the nonsense about you being insecure. Insecurity is sticking around and putting up with his BS that makes you unhappy. You're not asking him to climb Everest or swim the Atlantic...just ditch the pics, it's a reasonable request.
I agree about the insecurity label being thrown out too much. And who cares what name people call you anyway? Still doesn't change your feelings or what you need. I only thought she was overreacting because they're just pictures of some past event tucked away in a file. It's not like he's looking at them often or keeping in contact with her.
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