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Old 03-29-2014, 05:35 PM
 
Location: Melbourne, Australia
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Exactly! Men are not mind-readers. I will assume a woman is not interested if she doesn't talk to me.
Men are expected to initiative conversation, yet men are often shot down and given the cold shoulder, and you have women complaining about being hit on too often.
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Old 03-29-2014, 06:18 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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The only time I had been able to successfully determine that a girl liked me based on body language was back when I was 13 years old (8th grade). Too bad some girls make it less obvious as they get older.
The last woman who approached me flat out told me she liked me. No signals, and no games. More women like this need to exist.
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Old 03-29-2014, 06:21 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Men are expected to initiative conversation, yet men are often shot down and given the cold shoulder, and you have women complaining about being hit on too often.
Women don't know what they want. If you approach a woman, you're labled a creep. If you don't approach women, you're labled a p***y. Damned if you do, damned if you don't.
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Old 03-29-2014, 06:26 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Women don't know what they want. If you approach a woman, you're labled a creep.
Why would you be labeled a creep for approaching a woman? Are you awkward or sleazy? I doubt it. I think you're making more excuses.
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Old 03-29-2014, 06:36 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Why would you be labeled a creep for approaching a woman? Are you awkward or sleazy? I doubt it. I think you're making more excuses.
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Old 03-29-2014, 06:36 PM
 
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It's obvious you have a very limited understanding of how the word "creepy" is used these days, specifically by women.
Egh considering she is a gal it's likely she has more understanding of how the word 'creepy' is used by gals.
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Old 03-29-2014, 06:50 PM
 
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Her post implied otherwise.
Telling implication you seemingly drew from that.

Her post implied to me she had understanding since she doubts a guy will get labeled creepy unless the gal finds him awkward or sleazy. I find that's generally how gals use the word creepy so getting that label without being awkward/creepy is reasonable doubt to me. Now the guy may not agree that he was sleazy or awkward but to her the word was appropriate.
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Old 03-29-2014, 07:20 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Why would you be labeled a creep for approaching a woman? Are you awkward or sleazy? I doubt it. I think you're making more excuses.
I have seen it happen before. I am not making excuses.
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Old 03-29-2014, 07:36 PM
 
Location: In the middle.
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Don't forget hiking groups. Tune in next week for the next episode "Ruth's homespun dating tips that vastly oversimplify the modern dating world"
I've found her advice to be very geographically dependent. Her ideas may work in the Bay Area. They sure as hell aren't worth the electrons on your screen out here.
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Old 03-29-2014, 07:50 PM
 
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Women don't know what they want. If you approach a woman, you're labled a creep. If you don't approach women, you're labled a p***y. Damned if you do, damned if you don't.
Dude, approaching women is how you get them interested. How are you going to get women if you don't approach 'em? I approach women, and no one's called me 'creep'. Your fears are unreal. Either there's something wrong with how you approach, or your fear is all in your head. Or you're jiving us again. Do you even know how to approach women? Maybe that's your problem. If you're not comfortable with it, they can sense that.

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