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Old 03-28-2014, 05:25 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Surely there must be other factors at play as well. Why don't you work on those first? I get the impression you are not ready to move away from your parents' house at the moment.
I agree, OP. You seem traumatized by your school experience, and quite possibly other factors. You should get that resolved, first.

 
Old 03-28-2014, 05:30 PM
 
Location: Texas
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I agree, OP. You seem traumatized by your school experience, and quite possibly other factors. You should get that resolved, first.
The past can not change, but I know that I can have different outcomes in the future!
 
Old 03-28-2014, 05:35 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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The past can not change, but I know that I can have different outcomes in the future!
The past can't change, but your emotional response to it can. Instead of being disturbed or upset by the past, you can reach a place of equanimity.
 
Old 03-28-2014, 06:11 PM
 
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I'm curious what replies I'll get with this question. Not racist but where the majority of people are white.
Look, I did online research for you 88% white and median age is 26...the city you should move to is Boulder, CO!!!!!!!!!!!! Now get a tech job and move there or go to medical school or law school.
 
Old 03-28-2014, 06:18 PM
 
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Panama IA, Terrytown AK and Dillingham NC.
 
Old 03-28-2014, 06:33 PM
 
Location: Houston, Tx
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I'm curious what replies I'll get with this question. Not racist but where the majority of people are white.
College! College! College! How many times do I got to tell you dudes that?
 
Old 03-28-2014, 06:35 PM
 
Location: Texas
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College! College! College! How many times do I got to tell you dudes that?
College is very expensive!
 
Old 03-29-2014, 06:11 AM
 
Location: USA
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College isn't the place if you're looking for a monogamous relationship. The college years are where people experiment and have flings and so on. There are too many temptations when surrounded by young intelligent and attractive people.

I'm talking about name brand major universities here. You might have a shot at a po-dunk community college in a small town though.

From you're posts you claim to have aspergers and be socially awkward. Chances are you won't be getting any women until you get the issues sorted out. Seriously now will girls want some weird awkward guy or the college football stud? The answer is pretty clear.
 
Old 03-29-2014, 08:18 AM
 
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How many women do you actually need to "get"? Surely you just need one, or one at a time.
Even if you only want one, you're more likely to find that one with a larger number to choose from.

Oh, and to answer the OP's question: College. Or high school, if you're still 18.
 
Old 03-29-2014, 09:44 AM
 
Location: Texas
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Even if you only want one, you're more likely to find that one with a larger number to choose from.

Oh, and to answer the OP's question: College. Or high school, if you're still 18.
First of all, not in my old high school, its not like in movies and TV where there are a handful of people who will become your friend and a few girls who want to be with the nerd guys. This is real life and my old school was not close to the kind portrayed in movies and TV. Second I am now in a high school where there is literally barely anyone. Like less than 10 students AT MOST. After lunch there's maybe 3 and by 2:00 either just me or me and this one guy unless he's not at school that day. Socially it sucks (except it made me a few friends), academically it has allowed me to get my work done and I'm almost done (I'm kind of happy and not happy about that).
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