Is it just me or will women dance with anybody? (single, college)
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Well, why don't women just dance with their girlfriends if that's all they want to do. Why bother dancing with a guy at all?
Why not? If he's a good dancer, it's a few minutes of fun. Could be eye candy, too. Some guys look cute, others sexy, while they dance. That doesn't mean it has to go any further. Just enjoy the moment. If you can't do that, then don't go to places where there is dancing. It would be your loss, though, because some women size men up by how they dance. If you look uncomfortable or put out by it, you could be blowing chances without even realizing it. It might not be that they don't want anything from guys. They just might not want anything from you if you have a lousy attitude about it.
Why not? If he's a good dancer, it's a few minutes of fun. Could be eye candy, too. Some guys look cute, others sexy, while they dance. That doesn't mean it has to go any further. Just enjoy the moment. If you can't do that, then don't go to places where there is dancing. It would be your loss, though, because some women size men up by how they dance. If you look uncomfortable or put out by it, you could be blowing chances without even realizing it. It might not be that they don't want anything from guys. They just might not want anything from you if you have a lousy attitude about it.
The reason is that women are very sick of males who refuse to dance! I wouldn't complain about this. It shows they are fun and active and can do more than sit around and get wasted.
I'm not a dancer but I went to a singles dance and something that I noticed is that pretty much all women would dance with any guy regardless of looks. The guys didn't even half to ask, the women would gladly just go up to them because they just want to dance regardless.
I used to think that it might mean a women was interested in you if she asked you to dance but not anymore. Last night a girl asked me to dance and I told her I don't dance and she started begging so I went ahead and danced anyway but I don't know why since it didn't get me anywhere, not even a quick conversation. I think if you could dig a corpse up from the grave, attach some stings to it and dangle it from above women would dance with it.
So if this is true it begs the question, what's the point of dancing with women if it has no bearing on whether or not they're interested in you?
You have to remember, while for most men, dancing is just a way to meet women, a lot of women just like dancing.
I hate dancing and im awful at it thank god for grinding becasue its my only way to survive on a dance floor..Once the girl starts to create sepration im in trouble..
I hate dancing and im awful at it thank god for grinding becasue its my only way to survive on a dance floor..Once the girl starts to create sepration im in trouble..
Then take a class and learn. Grinding is not a very respectful way of dancing. No woman want's some stranger's junk up on her. Ask a woman to dance, then afterward escort her back to the floor like a gentleman. You can take a basic swing or salsa class to learn how to dance. No one expects you to be a dance pro, we women just expect you to have manners.
Then take a class and learn. Grinding is not a very respectful way of dancing. No woman want's some stranger's junk up on her. Ask a woman to dance, then afterward escort her back to the floor like a gentleman. You can take a basic swing or salsa class to learn how to dance. No one expects you to be a dance pro, we women just expect you to have manners.
I take it you haven't been to many clubs?
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