She JUST started dating him so to go and ask such questions so early in the game was inappropriate. Also these are college students which I doubt they are thinking about marriage any time soon. But folks in the South think you should be married and with two kids by 24 yrs old...I'm not from the South so there.
And IF the number of partners she had was a determinate of his decision to be with her then HE would have left her once she told him how many. What bothered me in this was the
need for names; that was totally unimportant...just something to hold over her head and make her feel ashamed. AND he keep demeaning her for her choices and the number of men...he's not looking to screen a potential mate just put someone down which spells abuser in my book.
Let's say having sex with JUST ONE other person could be my standard so does that make YOU or your wife worse of a person and me to judge YOU/HER?
. Yes, I do agree having toooooo many sexual partners is NOT a WISE DECISION but who determines the limit??
People... especially women... will lie about the number of partners they have had and will go to their grave never revealing that fact. Men will lie about not having sex with another man or 'underage" female (AKA
a child) and will go to his grave never telling anyone
oops.