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I decided to approach a woman for the 4th time in my life. She was incredibly attractive. I was shocked to find out she was single. To my surprise, she said yes when I asked her out (we are going out this weekend). During our conversation, she told me "guys don't really ask me out." I always thought women who were beautiful were taken. Usually, I am scared to talk to attractive women. But this time, I wasn't afraid. When she said yes, all my cynicism went away. I actually felt...confident. Guys, has this happened to you? Is it normal?
Of course. Makes you feel like a take charge, get things done kind of guy who gets results. Those are are the kind of men women find attractive not coincidentally.
I'm not totally surprised she doesn't get asked out much. It's kind of lost art these days.
This is just what moms tell their sons who are too afraid to talk to a girl. In reality, hot ones are hit on constantly.
Lol, exactly. I don't know where these people live were attractive women are just ignored by men. Maybe dudes in houston just have bigger stones, because where I live dudes are constantly hitting on hot chicks.
Some say that as a test to see how you'll react and what you say.
Sorry, but if a girl says that to me, I'm respectful enough to assume she does have a boyfriend and will back off completely. I despise game playing to the max.
You should never place your value and self-worth in the hands of anyone else. A yes is a nice boost, a no might suck, but it shouldn't change who you are, or have you living on a roller-coaster of emotions based on whether or not you get what you want from others.
Easy to say when women for the most part are not expected to approach and ask men out. All the pressure is on the man, so I can see how guys would be discouraged by being turned down their whole life, and vice versa guys who have a lot of confidence with women is because usually they've been successful with women for most of their lives.
Lol, exactly. I don't know where these people live were attractive women are just ignored by men. Maybe dudes in houston just have bigger stones, because where I live dudes are constantly hitting on hot chicks.
The girls I date get hit on pretty often. Now, maybe I just date ugly girls and no guys are afraid to approach them and I'm the only one in the world who thinks they're hot?
Easy to say when women for the most part are not expected to approach and ask men out. All the pressure is on the man, so I can see how guys would be discouraged by being turned down their whole life, and vice versa guys who have a lot of confidence with women is because usually they've been successful with women for most of their lives.
I'm going to be brutally honest here. I don't know any extremely attractive women that are never or rarely approached. Maybe things would be different if I hadn't lived in a major city - but I can't think of any of my friends that are extremely attractive that have not gotten hit on more than a few times.
I think this is the second time this week we've agreed on something.
I decided to approach a woman for the 4th time in my life. She was incredibly attractive. I was shocked to find out she was single. To my surprise, she said yes when I asked her out (we are going out this weekend). During our conversation, she told me "guys don't really ask me out." I always thought women who were beautiful were taken. Usually, I am scared to talk to attractive women. But this time, I wasn't afraid. When she said yes, all my cynicism went away. I actually felt...confident. Guys, has this happened to you? Is it normal?
Congrats. That is awesome. Best wishes to you.
Remember, she said yes to you. All you have to do is have a good time with her. Don't worry about being perfect or anything.
I think this is the second time this week we've agreed on something.
Uh oh. Do you think hell has frozen over???
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