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MrSaiyan666 · 04-01-2014, 06:00 PM

I would really like to know your opinion on this and if I should give my relationship with my girlfriend a try and see if it would work out. Well I'm 19 years old and my girlfriend is 18. We've only been together for 3months now and I think I really love her and she loves me. She has had a bad past and has slept with 13 guys before me. When I've only slept with 3 girls including her. She says she regrets it and was lost and confused at that time and wasn't living at home. Well anyway one Saturday night we went to a little party together we both knew people there. Well long story short I was drinking and got pretty drunk and messed around with one of her bestfriends we kissed and she gave me a blow job. I was the one looking for it because I've always had this horrible feeling where my girlfriend has had sex with so many guys and it makes me feel like ****. So I guess that's the reason I did it, but I really wasn't thinking straight. Anyway meanwhile me and one of her best friends were messing around somebody walked in and saw us and ended up telling my gf. She was hurt and started crying. I didn't know about this till the next day, I didnt know that they had told her. But anyway my girlfriend was pretty messed up she was on 2 1/2 bars (Xanax) and had taken like 8 shots of vodka. She ended up sleeping with another guy that same night at that same apartment. While they were having sex I was in the restroom throwing up. Once I sobered up I went looking for her and caught her naked in a closet. I was pissed off and just left. She ended up having sex with him again after I left. The next day she said she didn't remember having sex with him. I believed her because early that morning around 6am she walked to my house crying and saying she was going to kill herself because I told her I never wanted to see her again cause she had cheated. She didn't even remember that I had done **** with her bestfriend. She was crying so much and said it was the biggest mistake of her life because she lost the best thing in her life(me). She was begging me back. She really didn't remember anything that of that night that she had to call the guy she had sex with to ask him what had happened. He told her that they had sex twice and that she couldn't even kiss him but they still ended up having sex without kissing and meanwhile they were having sex she kept saying that she felt like **** and had a sad look on her face. That's when I had walked in on them so I'm guessing they didn't get to finish. The second time, after I had left they had sex again and this time she started crying while she was on top of him so he just told her to stop. I'm really confused I don't know what to do because she has told me that she has never cheated on one of her boyfriends before that this was the first time. But it pisses me off that she did it out of revenge to me. She says that if she wasn't messed up the way she was, she would have never done that and would've beat me up lol. I know she was messed up pretty bad by popping those 2 1/2 pills and drinking those 8 shots of vodka and beer. But I really don't know what to do. She says she loves me and wants to be with me forever. Can you please reply and give me your opinion on this.