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Old 04-03-2014, 02:16 PM
 
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I never changed my passwords, so he must have gotten on there without me knowing. I have since changed everything. He actually looked up every number that I had been calling/texting.
Ugh. Okay, let this be a horrible warning to everyone everywhere who ever breaks up or divorces anyone at anytime forever and ever amen: The minute you decide to separate, before anyone even moves out, the first thing you do is separate all of your accounts, change your cell numbers, and create new passwords for everything that is yours alone, from your email to your credit cards to your bills to your bleepin' Facebook and Spotify.

Gawd, and people wonder why I get so bent about password privacy and not sharing every rootin' tootin' thing with a spouse. Because divorce and crap like this is why.
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Old 04-03-2014, 03:05 PM
 
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Ugh. Okay, let this be a horrible warning to everyone everywhere who ever breaks up or divorces anyone at anytime forever and ever amen: The minute you decide to separate, before anyone even moves out, the first thing you do is separate all of your accounts, change your cell numbers, and create new passwords for everything that is yours alone, from your email to your credit cards to your bills to your bleepin' Facebook and Spotify.

Gawd, and people wonder why I get so bent about password privacy and not sharing every rootin' tootin' thing with a spouse. Because divorce and crap like this is why.

Lesson learned-definitely the hard way.
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Old 04-03-2014, 03:20 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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OP, your drama is one of the reasons why lots of guys don't want to date moms. People like you ruin it for all of them.

Get your whole mess sorted out first, before you start dating.

And about telling the bf about the ex acting out - why? You want him to come over and get in a fight with the ex?
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Old 04-03-2014, 05:15 PM
 
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Why the need for all of this drama?

Who would want to put up with all of this drama?
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Old 04-03-2014, 08:09 PM
 
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I'm going to guess you where both flipping out and calling each other whatever name sounded good before it left your mouths which is why nothing was done about it.

These situations are rarely one sided.

Why do you want your bf to know?
You should be more concerned he knows how your ex is treating you over who called who.
I bet the kids were right there watching the whole thing too.

Mom was prolly upstairs drinking.
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