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Old 04-07-2014, 09:44 AM
 
Location: "Silicon Valley" (part of San Francisco Bay Area, California, USA)
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Keep on doing what you're doing and never having a relationship, then.
I asked you a question. Why does never having found reciprocation for one's romantic feelings somehow cause one to be immature? So far I am not impressed by the maturity of your own responses.
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Old 04-07-2014, 09:57 AM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Big city.

I'm not one to blame location on dating problems, however size of the city plays a huge role. Two cities of equal size will yield about the same results, but the larger city will almost always be better.. due to sheer numbers. To generalize people and how they are by where they live is usually a losing battle. Don't generalize.
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Old 04-07-2014, 10:01 AM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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There's no basement in my house, I don't have a cheeto stained game controller, and my hands are not calloused. I know its a stereotype that all teenagers have a bunch of friends and get a girifriend (or boyfriend) easily, and party all the time, but that's not me, it'd be nice though. I really am being honest here. My life has sucked alot.
Hey man, I can believe that you're not messing with us. I'm tellin you though, stop worrying so much about a relationship if you really are 18. I never did too well with women when I was your age either. At 18, it's not time to be worried about settling down or finding a serious relationship. 18 is about becoming a man, and by that I mean getting your life on track and figuring out where you want to be going. At this point in your life, women are very immature and will be trying to make you be a certain type of person. There's almost no such thing as a mature relationship at that age. Focus on your life, focus on gaining life skills and getting into a career or trade that you want to be doing. Save up, travel to foreign countries, meet people abroad, make friends. A serious relationship is not something you need right now.
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Old 04-07-2014, 05:15 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Hey man, I can believe that you're not messing with us. I'm tellin you though, stop worrying so much about a relationship if you really are 18. I never did too well with women when I was your age either. At 18, it's not time to be worried about settling down or finding a serious relationship. 18 is about becoming a man, and by that I mean getting your life on track and figuring out where you want to be going. At this point in your life, women are very immature and will be trying to make you be a certain type of person. There's almost no such thing as a mature relationship at that age. Focus on your life, focus on gaining life skills and getting into a career or trade that you want to be doing. Save up, travel to foreign countries, meet people abroad, make friends. A serious relationship is not something you need right now.
I've seriously been thinking women my age and younger need more time to mature, I'd rather be in a relationsip when I can be out of my parents house. If I was in college I'd be ready to date, and it'd be convienent.
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Old 04-07-2014, 05:16 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Tough one. If you said 21 I'd say big city.
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Old 04-07-2014, 08:34 PM
 
Location: Wisconsin
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YOU might.
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NO freakin kidding. I have almost given up on this place because it become the young, obsessive, emotionally-challenged clueless male hangout.
Such hypocrisy. You have much to learn about maturity as well as relationships due to your above statement.

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Old 04-07-2014, 09:10 PM
 
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Why does never having found reciprocation for one's romantic feelings somehow cause one to be immature?
It doesn't. Read again. Or don't. Again, it's no skin off my nose. Carry on doing what you do, if that's what floats your boat.
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