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That is not my idea of a marriage. I would not want to be in her shoes.
It is great that the two of them have more things in common compared to you and her, but since he is not her love, I would not marry him if I was in her shoes.
Not my idea of a marriage either, but people do this all the time.. Especially people who want to settle down and start families. (Surely not every marriage, but it happens..)
Not my idea of a marriage either, but people do this all the time.. Especially people who want to settle down and start families. (Surely not every marriage, but it happens..)
It's like she hooked up with the first guy that showed up after we stopped being together. She had a couple of boyfriend after that, then met him and they have been together for a few years. She cares for him, I'm sure of that.
I personally don't believe every marriage has to be a major love story.
You...will just grow old. Thinking about what might have been.
Something to consider.
I don't mind. As long as she's happy and I'm able to do other things I enjoy, it'll be good. Fortunately, I've plenty of interests to dedicate myself to.
If You don't want the same things from life, Move on and don't allow people to take advatage of "connection"
"Connections" are only one part of a relationship not the whole.
You will only complicate a very simple issue if you intend to Follow forward with those who are not "on the same page"
It appears to already be happening judging by this threads existence. You don't need to justify not having the same outlook, but ignoring it in favor of personal desires is just writing you bad end before you bothered to start.
Last edited by rego00123; 04-06-2014 at 04:39 PM..
It appears to already be happening judging by this threads existence. You don't need to justify not having the same outlook, but ignoring it in favor of personal desires is just writing you bad end before you bothered to start.
It might seem strange but I believe she'll be better off with him in the long run even though I'm quite sure I love her more than he does.
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