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But would this type of women be good for a man who has never had a girlfriend and he probably has alot learn. If I went through my twentys without a date and then a women says she wants to be with me because shes mature and wants stability I wouldnt have anything nice to say to her.
Why not? What are you doing to try to get dates, what's your strategy? What kind of women do you approach, IF you approach?
Why not? What are you doing to try to get dates, what's your strategy? What kind of women do you approach, IF you approach?
I was just remembering a past forum where women said that a virgin past a certain had something wrong with them or dont feel like teaching. I dont approach women anymore due to no sucess just trying to give other men in my position something to think about.
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I was just remembering a past forum where women said that a virgin past a certain had something wrong with them or dont feel like teaching. I dont approach women anymore due to no sucess just trying to give other men in my position something to think about.
Dude, seriously weak. Don't live your life by what was said on a freaking forum and don't live it in fear.
I was just remembering a past forum where women said that a virgin past a certain had something wrong with them or dont feel like teaching. I dont approach women anymore due to no sucess just trying to give other men in my position something to think about.
You were plugged into the wrong forum. Women have to teach pretty much every guy they're with, because all women are individuals, their systems are unique, so each guy has to learn how to push the buttons of each woman he's with. Some guys enjoy the "learning new things" aspect of it.
Dude, seriously weak. Don't live your life by what was said on a freaking forum and don't live it in fear.
Idont care what they said my point is ifwomen have been dating confident men why date someone who is not confident its got be more than being treated bad.
^^This. It's a stage of life, often a rite of passage. A lot of guys can be wild when they're younger, and then they grow up and mature into solid, responsible men. Bad boy versus good guy isn't one guy against the other, it's often the same guy at different life stages.
Perhaps, but some men also never go through that life stage. Personally, I never did and never had a desire to, and even if I had actually been offered it in the past, I almost certainly would have politely declined. I never wanted to "be wild", never wanted to "sow oats" -- what I wanted was one real, committed love, for life. The One. Ms. Right. A soul mate, and a constant, stable, ongoing, and fully-devoted kind of love. Anything less would have been wholly inadequate, and not enough to make me happy.
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Idont care what they said my point is ifwomen have been dating confident men why date someone who is not confident its got be more than being treated bad.
You were plugged into the wrong forum. Women have to teach pretty much every guy they're with, because all women are individuals, their systems are unique, so each guy has to learn how to push the buttons of each woman he's with. Some guys enjoy the "learning new things" aspect of it.
So don't worry. Be happy.
Im just saying how could I believe her I approached alot of women who were not attracted to me so if a women said that now I would be wondering what shes up to. Besides I have made myself happy with my situation and I dont want to throw it away for a women who has been chasing men she cant hang on to.
Im just saying how could I believe her I approached alot of women who were not attracted to me so if a women said that now I would be wondering what shes up to. Besides I have made myself happy with my situation and I dont want to throw it away for a women who has been chasing men she cant hang on to.
"Women who have been chasing men they can't hang onto"? You're saying all relationships should be successful from the start, no one should be breaking up with anyone? What about the men who can't hang onto their women? What does this even mean, anyway??
What about the women who are like you, they haven't been in a relationship, or have only had one? Why would you be suspicious of someone who wanted to get to know you? I can't relate to that at all. Just because you had no luck before, you're condemning any and all women who might want to get to know you now? Maybe you just approached the wrong women before. What kind of women did you approach?
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