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Old 04-09-2014, 10:30 AM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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I approached a girl in a bar who was wearing something Indian. I asked her if she had ever been to India and she told me to "get the f*ck away from her this instant"
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Old 04-09-2014, 10:31 AM
 
Location: Southern CA
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I approached a girl in a bar who was wearing something Indian. I asked her if she had ever been to India and she told me to "get the f*ck away from her this instant"
Oh man..harsh.
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Old 04-09-2014, 11:44 AM
 
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I approached a girl in a bar who was wearing something Indian. I asked her if she had ever been to India and she told me to "get the f*ck away from her this instant"

Lol what was your response?

I haven't been fantastically rejected in recent times, I mean I've been rejected by women but nothing really noteworthy, they've all been pretty uneventful and polite shutdowns. The last time I can remember getting harshly rejected was in high school when I gave a girl a really awfully written (in hindsight) kind of "I have a crush on you" note as I passed her in the hall one day and she just ended up showing like 5 other guys the note in her next class before having a girlfriend of hers return it to me with pretty much a "thanks, but no thanks" and then she literally ballerina skipped away. I think I'm actually more embarrassed about the whole thing now than I was when it actually happened, I was a major d-bag in high school all around lol.
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Old 04-09-2014, 12:04 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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haha, I don't have time to write a novel

The biggest ones I can think of were.... in 5th grade I was told in front of my entire class by the guy I had a little crush on that I was 'the ugliest girl in the world and he would NEVER go out with me' so that was the beginning of many years of rejections. I've been barked at, moo'd at, laughed at, told 'god no' more than once and my last boyfriend broke it off with me because 'he tried, but just wasn't attracted to me physically'. Interestingly, my only other boyfriend told me basically the same thing.

I'm an expert at taking rejection now.
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Old 04-09-2014, 12:11 PM
 
Location: San Antonio, TX
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Do you have to be so graphic? Ouch.
I dunno...that post had me in stitches!

--Dim
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Old 04-09-2014, 12:25 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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It happens that I am chatting up a guy at the gym or at a motorcycle hang out spot. I give him my number and he just never calls.

It is a great relief if I see him later on somewhere with a woman or a child or another guy because that rejection then doesn't feel bad anymore.
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Old 04-09-2014, 12:44 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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If you have a harsh rejection, describe that one!

For me, it was nothing extraordinary.

I got a girl's number off of online.

Started texting her.

Asked to meet up and she didn't respond.
One woman laughed at me and the second woman said I was too ugly to talk to her.
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Old 04-09-2014, 01:08 PM
 
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I've never gotten a "rejection" rejection, but like others here, I've had that passive rejection were men just not call or contact me again.
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Old 04-09-2014, 01:10 PM
 
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I've never gotten a "rejection" rejection, but like others here, I've had that passive rejection were men just not call or contact me again.
What stopped you from being the one who actually called the guy?
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Old 04-09-2014, 01:17 PM
 
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What stopped you from being the one who actually called the guy?
In some cases I did contact him and he just didn't contact me back (when I had his info/we exchanged info), on a lot of cases I just didn't have his contact info but he had mine, and in a few (after thinking about it) I decided I didn't want to contact him (although that's not really rejection so much as mutual disinterest )
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