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Dating someone with a lower drive for two years starts to rub off on you. Now my drive has lowered a bit. I hate it! You never realize how great it is to have that sort of desire--to have that purpose to your life. It seems like a burden until it's gone and then you miss it.
Although if I think about my ex, who was very passionate and sexual, I get rock hard instantly so it seems I have the capacity somewhere deep in my psyche. It's just been muted by a passionless relationship. Putting that aside, it's still a much less dysfunctional relationship than my last one. Believe me, no interest in going back... that woman was hell to be around. But the sex was the one good thing and pretty much the only thing that kept that one going. Now it's like the opposite--everything is great but the sex has suffered.
Anyway regarding the OP... women can be very sexual. Just as much as men. I don't know what the percentages are but I think men tend to drink themselves to the point that whatever extra we have is lost to the alcohol. Especially if we try drinking like we're in our 20s, and we're in our 30s.
Oh boy. My experience has been that women are more sexual then men. They are filthy, depraved, deplorable little sex kittens just lying in wait for the right guy.
Women spend hundreds of dollars and bust their asses to "look" sexy, but don't actually WANT to have sex, at least not with the very men they've chosen to be with, or even build a life with.
What planet are you living on? Have you left the confines of your basement in the past 20 years? Serious question. The opening post is about the saddest thing I've ever read!
Women love sex. After 40, most women I have known (and I know plenty) have higher sex drives than their men. Nearly everything written in the OP is erroneous and pathetically ridiculous. Try getting out and actually having a conversation with a real woman!
Do straight women as a whole actually LIKE men sexually? Or in any way at all? I mean, like and desire NORMAL men, not just the 5% that look like The Rock or *insert hot dude-of-the-week here*.
I spend time in real-life conversations, or on other web boards. Although you C-D ladies have ravaging libidos (proving there are at least a few of you out there), you represent about 10% of the women in the world, in my experience.
First off, while men oogle and even masturbate to gorgeous women, at the end of the day, most of us honestly do love and wish to have sex with our less-than-perfect (in society's eyes, not usually our own) wives and girlfriends. However, those very women find our naked bodies unattractive, or funny, or undesirable. Our male libidos are a subject of humor and eye-rolling during their conversations amongst other women. They rant and rave about hot men, and talk about how great sex is in THEORY, but then, when they get home, they never actually have sex with their husbands.
Women spend hundreds of dollars and bust their asses to "look" sexy, but don't actually WANT to have sex, at least not with the very men they've chosen to be with, or even build a life with. I'm not saying they cheat, I'm saying they're perfectly happy never having sex, or doing it 2 times a year when there's no excuse not to.
I'm not talking just about guys who HAVE let themselves go, who are 100 lbs overweight, or smell bad. That's one thing. But plenty of these are decent to good looking men, not perfect, mind you, but no less perfect than their own wives or girlfriends, who they DO still want to have sex with, yet they're not getting any at home, either.
I don't buy for a minute that ALL of these men just suck in bed, either.
I actually believe that women find the SUBJECT of sex fascinating, just not participating in it.
I'll make it easy.. Women do like/love sex, if a woman doesn't want sex , more than likely she bored and one needs up their game~~ !
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Women do like/love sex, if a woman doesn't want sex , more than likely she bored and one needs up their game~~ !
