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Old 04-10-2014, 12:24 PM
 
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Your posting history has you saying you are 28, 30 and 32 all within the past year. Why is that?
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Old 04-10-2014, 12:34 PM
 
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busted
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Old 04-10-2014, 12:45 PM
 
Location: Living on the Coast in Oxnard CA
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Marriage doesn't guarantee sex and the OP doesn't want a wife.
True but he has not had any at all with his current plan of action.
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Old 04-10-2014, 12:47 PM
 
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You abstain from food to save money for an escort you might see someday?
Gotta have priorities.
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Old 04-10-2014, 12:50 PM
 
Location: Living on the Coast in Oxnard CA
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Anyone that has to rely on porn to get off has major issues. Sex is about love my friend. Porn has nothing to do with love.
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Old 04-10-2014, 01:03 PM
 
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If the OP doesn't care about improving his other issues, is relying on junk food, doesn't care about a relationship and thinks about nothing but sex, ok then he can go all the his getting an escort. He is then going to find himself lonely and probably say ''Oh was that all?'' and the cicle will start all over again and again. I believe after that escort experience, it's not going to suddenly make him famous. My father had a friend who had many sexual encounters with escorts but could never form a long lasting relationships even though he was a high count numbered. Seriously, every single gf would break up with him after only weeks or 2 months of dating. Obviously there was still something wrong with the guy no matter what his count was for no women to consider him bf/husband material.

I fail to see how does having sex with many escorts and sleeping around relates to knowing and understanding the dynamics within a long-term relationship.
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Old 04-10-2014, 03:56 PM
 
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Anyone that has to rely on porn to get off has major issues. Sex is about love my friend. Porn has nothing to do with love.
Let's assume that he loves porn and that he loves himself.
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Old 04-10-2014, 07:12 PM
 
Location: northwest Illinois
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Is anyone else like this? My ideal "romantic" relationship is purely a FWB situation. I have no interest in standard relationships. I do consider myself to have aspergers and AvPD (Avoidance personality disorder). Unfortunately I'm stuck in a somewhat conservative small town so it's difficult to find women interested in this arrangement. I have no interest in going on a date or "hanging out" and purely just want to laid. I am a 36 year old male virgin who decided to take the plunge with dating and relationships this year and quickly found out it has no appeal to me. I have a very difficult time forming relationships/relating to people but the sexual urges persist.

Perhaps using the services of escorts to satisfy my needs would be better?
Sure, there's that but then you'd save money if you just enlist the help of your TEN sisters. Hint; five sisters on each hand, just don't get blisters on your sisters! The best part is they'll NEVER tell you no.
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Old 04-10-2014, 09:22 PM
 
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Sure, there's that but then you'd save money if you just enlist the help of your TEN sisters. Hint; five sisters on each hand, just don't get blisters on your sisters! The best part is they'll NEVER tell you no.
Why do I feel like I am among 8th grade boys?
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Old 04-11-2014, 10:05 AM
 
Location: northwest Illinois
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Why do I feel like I am among 8th grade boys?
No idea, but it's a often ignored but well know fact.
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