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Is anyone else like this? My ideal "romantic" relationship is purely a FWB situation. I have no interest in standard relationships. I do consider myself to have aspergers and AvPD (Avoidance personality disorder). Unfortunately I'm stuck in a somewhat conservative small town so it's difficult to find women interested in this arrangement. I have no interest in going on a date or "hanging out" and purely just want to laid. I am a 36 year old male virgin who decided to take the plunge with dating and relationships this year and quickly found out it has no appeal to me. I have a very difficult time forming relationships/relating to people but the sexual urges persist.
Perhaps using the services of escorts to satisfy my needs would be better?
FWBs hang out with each other. That's why they are called friends with benefits. People who have sex and leave are fbuddies.
You make minimum wage and you are thinking about wasting your money on prostitutes? How about getting an education/promotion?
FWBs hang out with each other. That's why they are called friends with benefits. People who have sex and leave are fbuddies.
You make minimum wage and you are thinking about wasting your money on prostitutes? How about getting an education/promotion?
I bburned out of the rat race nearly 20 yrs ago and don't think I can get myself back into it. With a lot of college graduates that I know working at Starbucks and Walmart years after graduation definitely turns me off to blowing money on it (again) Taking a promotion where I work would mean 60/70 hour weeks and having no time to do the things that give me a reason to continue living.
You don't appear to like people, you think watching porn equates to sex 101, and you have no interest in addressing your psychological issues, so yeah, escorts would be the best bet.
If you ever decide to join the human race though rather than merely existing, a psychiatrist should be your first stop for a formal diagnosis. I'm not convinced about the Aspberger's.
Alright you might think he is annoying but that's over the top there. Unless the OP has green skin and two heads with one eye. He's still human. Let's keep things in perspective.
Is anyone else like this? My ideal "romantic" relationship is purely a FWB situation. I have no interest in standard relationships. I do consider myself to have aspergers and AvPD (Avoidance personality disorder). Unfortunately I'm stuck in a somewhat conservative small town so it's difficult to find women interested in this arrangement. I have no interest in going on a date or "hanging out" and purely just want to laid. I am a 36 year old male virgin who decided to take the plunge with dating and relationships this year and quickly found out it has no appeal to me. I have a very difficult time forming relationships/relating to people but the sexual urges persist.
Perhaps using the services of escorts to satisfy my needs would be better?
I don't find sex alone romantic.
But my mind perhaps works differently from yours. I only find the men I love sexually attractive. Having a man's body is not hard, having his heart is the best in my book.
But do whatever you need to do, the challenge is to find the woman who is willing to do what you want with you.
But my mind perhaps works differently from yours. I only find the men I love sexually attractive. Having a man's body is not hard, having his heart is the best in my book.
But do whatever you need to do, the challenge is to find the woman who is willing to do what you want with you.
That's probably one of the biggest emotional differences between men and women, women REQUIRE romance where men do NOT. Romance only tends to complicate the issue that often keeps people from having really great sex.
Based on your ADHD diagnosis your physician should prescribe weekly escort service visits. A proper health insurance provider would gladly cover the expenses, I am sure.
That's probably one of the biggest emotional differences between men and women, women REQUIRE romance where men do NOT. Romance only tends to complicate the issue that often keeps people from having really great sex.
I guess I'm not a manly man or anything because I find commitment to be incredibly sexy, and being in love is so much better than just ****ing some random person because they're there and have the right parts. Romantic love means they actually want ME as well as the d. And bonding chemicals make the endorphins and pheromones speedball so much more euphoric.
I have no idea how anyone man or woman could prefer unromantic sex unless they're porn addicts or have other emotional issues.
OP, I don't blame you. I don't want to deal with the hassle of dating either. Actually, I don't want to deal with the hassle of even finding a FB or FWB. Much better to spend that time lifting weights, fishing, or shooting.
Now if only there were some way to kill the sex drive without messing up the testosterone that I need to build muscle....
I guess I'm not a manly man or anything because I find commitment to be incredibly sexy, and being in love is so much better than just ****ing some random person because they're there and have the right parts. Romantic love means they actually want ME as well as the d. And bonding chemicals make the endorphins and pheromones speedball so much more euphoric.
I have no idea how anyone man or woman could prefer unromantic sex unless they're porn addicts or have other emotional issues.
You'd be surprised. I don't even watch porn at all, but DO enjoy spontaneous sex with a woman. The LAST thing I want right now, would be complicated feelings and emotions from a woman. a little physical release is all that required for many of us. NOT love at all.
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