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Old 04-10-2014, 05:39 PM
 
Location: Pa
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If they want to, they should. If they don't want to, they shouldn't. Some women don't have to.
It's not about not having too, because many of us are hit on or flirted with but no follow though.It seems some women need to do the work inorder to get anywhere. Many guys have no idea what to do.

 
Old 04-10-2014, 05:41 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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It's not about not having too, because many of us are hit on or flirted with but no follow though.It seems some women need to do the work inorder to get anywhere. Many guys have no idea what to do.
It's true. Many don't know how to close the deal.
 
Old 04-10-2014, 06:03 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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It's not about not having too, because many of us are hit on or flirted with but no follow though.It seems some women need to do the work inorder to get anywhere. Many guys have no idea what to do.
And some women don't have to. If the men you are interested in are also interested in you and ask you out - then you don't have to approach anyone.
 
Old 04-10-2014, 06:07 PM
 
Location: Pa
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It's true. Many don't know how to close the deal.
Nope not at all. Saddly.
 
Old 04-10-2014, 06:09 PM
 
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If they want to, they should. If they don't want to, they shouldn't. Some women don't have to.

Shouldn't then men also not have to?
 
Old 04-10-2014, 06:10 PM
 
Location: Pa
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And some women don't have to. If the men you are interested in are also interested in you and ask you out - then you don't have to approach anyone.
True it would be nice.
 
Old 04-10-2014, 06:21 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Shouldn't then men also not have to?
Some men don't have to either. Nobody HAS to ask anyone out - but my point is that there are people that are asked out by the people that they want to be asked out by - so they don't HAVE to ask people out in order to date the people they want to date.
 
Old 04-10-2014, 06:23 PM
 
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I don't do should or shouldn't unless it applies to harming children or animals.

However I don't see why it would be suited for gals to start approaching guys.
 
Old 04-10-2014, 06:33 PM
 
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Why? Give me some reasons.
Men like to feel wanted too. They receive compliments much less than women in my experience, and that includes personality compliments.
 
Old 04-10-2014, 06:35 PM
 
Location: Sacramento, Ca.
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One of the nice things about approaching is you get to choose who you interact with instead of waiting for a random person to happen to come up to you (whom you might not even be interested in). It puts you in control.
And this is also no longer the 20th Century. All that archaic bs about waiting for the man to initiate romance needs to be over. Women are now taking the lead and holding authority in so many aspects of life, I lost count. If you are supporting yourself, undoubtedly as well as any man could, you are at the end of the 'damsel who needs to be lead by a man' era. So ladies, go ahead and toss out those inhibitions that prevent you from getting out there and approaching the kind of man you desire and deserve!
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