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Another question. Do some men, like some women, get emotionally attached after sex?
I personally haven't met any men who didn't get emotionally attached after sex, then again, I do believe most men can separate sex from love and emotion.
As a girl, I can never have sex just for the sake of it. I need emotional attachment to even get excited, but that is just me.
Are there any me out here who won't /can't have sex without a commitment.
It's sad to say that I have always experienced to opposite end of this. Where men would try to sleep with me before anytime of commitment talk. There's this one guy who said he will absolutely not go there until there is a solid relationship.
Another question. Do some men, like some women, get emotionally attached after sex?
No one, male or female, who has any genuine life experience would make a commitment to someone without first finding out if they are sexually compatible. To make a commitment before determining sexual compatibility is a recipe for heartache and disaster.
Sadly, we live in an intensely naive, sex-negative culture that tells us that sex shouldn't be that important, that emotional connection is all that really matters. That is nonsense!
I prefer intimacy in sex, not commitment. However, I must admit these are usually complements, not substitutes. For a woman to be intimate, she has to feel completely secure and that level of emotional security is often reached through commitment, first.
I prefer intimacy in sex, not commitment. However, I must admit these are usually complements, not substitutes. For a woman to be intimate, she has to feel completely secure and that level of emotional security is often reached through commitment, first.
With respect, a woman who feels secure just because a man has made a verbal commitment to her is a very naive woman.
With respect, a woman who feels secure just because a man has made a verbal commitment to her is a very naive woman.
I didn't say anything about "words". Commitment, believe it or not, comes from the inside. I've never understood the "relationship talk". She'll watch her heart and your feet, not your words.
I prefer intimacy in sex, not commitment. However, I must admit these are usually complements, not substitutes. For a woman to be intimate, she has to feel completely secure and that level of emotional security is often reached through commitment, first.
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Originally Posted by Frihed89
I didn't say anything about "words". Commitment, believe it or not, comes from the inside. I've never understood the "relationship talk". She'll watch her heart and your feet, not your words.
Good insights.
I don't know why people think commitment is some kind of verbal contract .
It's about intent, integrity, meaning assigned the relationship, & the manifestation of these.
I have come across a lot of them, which is odd, since I am willing to have sex without the commitment.
Hahaha.....blunt and to the point.
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