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Old 04-13-2014, 10:13 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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You drive him home or call a cab for him. You don't invite a drunk guy you hardly know to stay over at your place. That's asking for trouble. How do you know he didn't deliberately get "too drunk to drive home" in order to have an excuse to get into your place?
Completely agree with this. This sounds really suspicious.....
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Old 04-13-2014, 10:36 PM
 
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I never been drunk on a date in my life thank god LOL.

I do not really drink anymore only on special occasions . The funny thing is if i was to drink before a date i would show up blackout drunk still be conscious and interacting with people, talking, and so on. She would have no idea I was blackout drunk .

I once called a friend and talk to that person for 3 hours and had no idea i even called that person or what i talked about for three hours. He called me the next day and was like are you OK you called me last night and talked to me for three hours . I was like What are you talking about .
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Old 04-13-2014, 10:38 PM
 
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I never been drunk on a date in my life thank god LOL.

I do not really drink anymore only on special occasions . The funny thing is if i was to drink before a date i would show up blackout drunk still be conscious and interacting with people, talking, and so on. She would have no idea I was blackout drunk .

I once called a friend and talk to that person for 3 hours and had no idea i even called that person or what i talked about for three hours. He called me the next day and was like are you OK you called me last night and talked to me for three hours . I was like What are you talking about .
Wow. You're like a sleep-walker. But you're a drunk-walker.
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Old 04-13-2014, 10:40 PM
 
Location: Plano, TX
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Let's say you are on a second date. Your date drinks too much wine, and says he's too drunk to drive home, so he wants to stay at your place.

Do you feel bad for him and allow it, even though you would not otherwise invite him up on the second date? Or do you say, too bad, it was your choice to drink so much?
Uh, unless you consider him a potential partner (i.e. beyond a second date), I would tell him to get a cab. The most important thing in a relationship, IMHO, is compatibility, and if you two don't have that, then maybe you shouldn't be together.
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Old 04-13-2014, 10:41 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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lol, what kind of dude gets drunk on wine? Just how many bottles did he drink..?! Unbelievable, definitely no 3rd date!
lmao...
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Old 04-13-2014, 10:47 PM
 
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Wow. You're like a sleep-walker. But you're a drunk-walker.
Yea it is a very awkward situation when your out and about and a female you never seen in your life runs up to you and say how is it going i have not seen you in a long time and gives you a hug .
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Old 04-13-2014, 10:52 PM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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It's not quite as dangerous being the male.
Sure (I guess), but for each time I have made the decision to stay overnight there has also a woman making the same decision. If it were only men willing to do so it would never happen, except among gay couples. Thankfully I apparently tend to date women who aren't quite as afraid as some on this forum seem to be.
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Old 04-13-2014, 10:54 PM
 
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Sure (I guess), but for each time I have made the decision to stay overnight there has also a woman making the same decision. If it were only men willing to do so it would never happen, except among gay couples. Thankfully I apparently tend to date women who aren't quite as afraid as some on this forum seem to be.
That, or you come across as a very trustworthy person.
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Old 04-13-2014, 10:57 PM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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That, or you come across as a very trustworthy person.
That's exactly my point, though-- if a person doesn't appear trustworthy, why would you date them?
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Old 04-13-2014, 11:02 PM
 
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That's exactly my point, though-- if a person doesn't appear trustworthy, why would you date them?
Circular conversations!

Yes. We would all (hopefully) date people who appear to be trustworthy. But, appearances can be deceiving, so even though someone may APPEAR trustworthy, on only the second date you really do not know if that personally actually IS trustworthy - unless you DO know them prior and have seen them for a long period of time in some other context.
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