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Old 04-15-2014, 02:17 PM
 
Location: England
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Ive been thinking about this for a while. I really like my guy friend, but im not sure whether he likes me or if im in the friend zone. Weve been good friends for about 3 years now so i dont wont to ruin that if he doesnt actually like me.
So ive been trying to figure if he does. Things ive got so far are:
-He always makes eye contact and smiles when were talking. Sometimes he doesnt talk but just looks.
-He teases me in a fun way
-The other night at our friends party he asked me if i wanted a hug. It may not sound very big but ive never seen him hug anybody.
-We ended up laying on the bed giving each other massages. Other people were in the room though.
-He also came and slept on the same couch as me -even though there was an empty air bed on the floor. It was small so we had to hold each other on.
-He asked me if i wanted to go see a movie with him and his friend.
-When we text, we usually have deep, long conversations.

I think thats about it. Im not sure. Any Advice?
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Old 04-15-2014, 02:27 PM
 
Location: USA
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You sure came to the right place.
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Old 04-15-2014, 02:39 PM
 
Location: Australia
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I'm 100% sure that he likes you. Go for it.
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Old 04-15-2014, 02:56 PM
 
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It sounds to me like he likes you! I say even if you were wrong- it's better to ask him out than always wonder.
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Old 04-15-2014, 04:19 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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Ask him.....I don't think it would hurt anything. Sounds like he likes you.
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Old 04-15-2014, 05:04 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Ask him out. What did you have in mind for the date, btw?
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Old 04-15-2014, 05:43 PM
 
Location: England
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I dont know:L Im super awkward when im just with one person by myself. I get lost for words and laugh out of nervousness. But as soon as im in a group i dont mind, even if im not talking to the rest of the group. Do you understand what i mean? If so, do you have any advice?
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Old 04-15-2014, 06:24 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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Ive been thinking about this for a while. I really like my guy friend, but im not sure whether he likes me or if im in the friend zone. Weve been good friends for about 3 years now so i dont wont to ruin that if he doesnt actually like me.
So ive been trying to figure if he does. Things ive got so far are:
-He always makes eye contact and smiles when were talking. Sometimes he doesnt talk but just looks.
-He teases me in a fun way
-The other night at our friends party he asked me if i wanted a hug. It may not sound very big but ive never seen him hug anybody.
-We ended up laying on the bed giving each other massages. Other people were in the room though.
-He also came and slept on the same couch as me -even though there was an empty air bed on the floor. It was small so we had to hold each other on.
-He asked me if i wanted to go see a movie with him and his friend.
-When we text, we usually have deep, long conversations.

I think thats about it. Im not sure. Any Advice?
I have many guy friends, but I cannot picture any of them naked.

They are like brothers to me. I can't imagine losing any of them as friends though as they are very important to me.

You cannot be 100% sure until you ask. Why not drop some hints? Ask him out for a movie, coffee or something like that?
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Old 04-15-2014, 06:35 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Uh he hugs you?
He massages you?
Text you?
Invited you with a guy friend?

C'mon the writing is on the wall. Lol
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Old 04-15-2014, 06:40 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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Women are almost never in the friend zone. If a man makes any effort at all to befriend a woman, he is almost always attracted to her. I mean, almost always. Tell your friend what you're thinking. I doubt he will be disappointed.
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