How do freaky people find each other? (dating, women, clubs)

[Fargobound]

How does someone that’s not R-Kelly find someone that’s into the same stuff?

Does one come right out and say they’re into freaky stuff or is it the casual soft sale over time?

I’m sure they’re clubs, but what about the average bloke that’s seeking the spice that only whips and leather can provide?

[JustJulia]

Websites dedicated to that kind of stuff, like Fetlife or AFF.

[supermanpansy]

Originally Posted by Fargobound

How does someone that’s not R-Kelly find someone that’s into the same stuff?

Does one come right out and say they’re into freaky stuff or is it the casual soft sale over time?

I’m sure they’re clubs, but what about the average bloke that’s seeking the spice that only whips and leather can provide?

You want to pee on someone?

[hawaiiancoconut]

internet

[Metaphysique]

Fet or OKC. There are a lot of D/s and kinksters on OKC. The majority of men I met or dated were either Doms or Kinksters.

[TabulaRasa]

Online, forum, targeted dating/social sites, networking. Same as any other interest, I suppose. Much easier now that in the past, I'd imagine, when there was mostly just word of mouth.

[NilaJones]

Google the name of your city and 'public dungeon'. And OKC, fetlife, AFF, as mentioned. the forums on those sites will give you excellent education on protocol, and on which forms of bdsm appeal most to women.

For the most success, bring up the topic before the first date. Put it in your profile.

[variant]

Fetlife is a sausage festival.

[Raena77]

Originally Posted by supermanpansy

You want to pee on someone?

Ahahahahaha!!!!!!!

[believe007]

Lol good question, because nothing's worse than
being mismatched sexually