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I am in early 30's and married for seven years now. The marriage is going well no problem about it. Before marriage i had ups and downs just like everyone does or did, I had some relations with some girls since I was 15 years old, but was unlucky to go deeper (sexual) with them because of my unluckiness - i have always had contacts with uneasy women.
Now since i have been married i feel much more desired to have intimate relationship with other women or girls, not like i did with my mentality of that time.
There are some chances since i am doing business in some regions, which involves women of different ages (single, married, in relationship) in the company i work. Now chances are higher because of increasing number of nice females in the last generation.
There is always a fight inside my brain- between morality and immorality whether i must have short relationship with someone or just momentous one or stay as I kept till now.
But when i see what other people do in my surrounding, and keep well in all terms, this might be a reason that pushes me to do the same. The difference is that these "bad" guys who always get and doing some nice girls end manipulating them with all methods including humiliation, I know i don't have such a character and would be a better option for these women.
There are also instances when girls date married men and feel no sorry about doing that, also involving other friends in fantasizing reality; i know a similar short fantasy adventure 6 years ago of a married friend of mine doing some girls for a short period, his wife knows nothing about it and they live happily without any problem, this guy told me that his relationship ended with those girls 5 years ago and said he lived up his moments and does not care anymore.
I need some deductive thoughts from you based on what i said. Should I use my chances going with other women on a short basis or not?
Thanks
Ado
Pardon me, I think it's rather unrealistic and delusional to think your actions have ABSOLUTELY no consequences, at all.
Exactly what answers were you looking for or what answers were you wanting, hoping to get by posting this?
The answer he is looking for...
I spent a year banging the hottest girls, most of them around half the age of my wife. It was completely drama free and after the year was over, I stopped seeing all of them and returned back to my wife who was more than happy to take me back with no consequences.
I've never heard adultery called "short relationships" before.
Perhaps the OP is in advertising.
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It's normal to have the 7-year itch as long as you don't scratch it.
It will bleed and get infected and, even if you do;t lose the limb, you will be scarred the rest of your life.
Go do some sports.
I am in early 30's and married for seven years now....
Your poor wife. I hope she sees this thread of yours and kicks you to the curb.
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Originally Posted by Adhom
The answer he is looking for...
I spent a year banging the hottest girls, most of them around half the age of my wife. It was completely drama free and after the year was over, I stopped seeing all of them and returned back to my wife who was more than happy to take me back with no consequences.
Your poor wife. If I ever get that desperate and lacking in self-esteem and self-respect that I would take back a man who would do that, someone, please shoot me.
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Originally Posted by jaypee
Dear Ado,
It's normal to have the 7-year itch as long as you don't scratch it.
It will bleed and get infected and, even if you do;t lose the limb, you will be scarred the rest of your life.
Go do some sports.
You're welcome,
jaypee
This. ^^^
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