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Old 04-25-2014, 01:50 AM
 
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Wondering what your thoughts are on your SO's sexual past. Is there anything that would make you break up with your current partner after you found out about his/her sexual past? Assuming that he/she has been faithful to you during the relationship but never disclosed the entire truth about his/her sexual history. Everything is going great and then you find out he/she did some things that are against your principles. They never wanted to be honest with you for fear of you not giving them a chance. Would you end it? Has it ever happened to you?

Do you have any sexual deal-breakers for any current partner? Some examples are you found out your BF has seen prostitutes, dabbled in bi-sexuality, lied about the number of people he slept with(in the hundreds), actually slept with your sister/close relative before you, etc etc etc.

If you are a guy and then you found out your GF worked in the sex industry, lied about the number of people she slept with(in the hundreds), participated in a lot of gangbangs, actually slept with your brother/close relatives before you, etc etc etc

Just curious if you are the type who believes in the present and can let go of one's past. Or are there certain types of situation where it's too much to accept and time to move on.

 
Old 04-25-2014, 02:30 AM
 
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I follow a don't ask/don't tell policy.
 
Old 04-25-2014, 02:34 AM
 
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I couldnt care less. I care about who the person is today, not who they were in the past.
 
Old 04-25-2014, 02:49 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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We've been honest with each other, as far as i can tell.

I think i would draw the line at habitual gang-banging, although even that were the case, I could probably put in the past if i tried hard enough.
 
Old 04-25-2014, 05:09 AM
 
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If we can't be honest about our pasts we shouldn't be together long term. I believe heavily in honesty
 
Old 04-25-2014, 05:10 AM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Where do you guys even come up with these things?

Seriously...
 
Old 04-25-2014, 06:43 AM
 
Location: Terra
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Probably the only thing is if she banged one of my friends, in which case I would have already known about it before getting srs.

Other than that, don't ask/don't tell. That's usually how adults function...
 
Old 04-25-2014, 09:50 AM
 
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Where do you guys even come up with these things?

Seriously...
Lol!! I bet there isn't a thread like this!!
 
Old 04-25-2014, 09:52 AM
 
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Probably the only thing is if she banged one of my friends, in which case I would have already known about it before getting srs.

Other than that, don't ask/don't tell. That's usually how adults function...
That's a scary thought!!

If they get offended for you asking then its a red flag!
 
Old 04-25-2014, 09:52 AM
 
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What are you supposed to do, consult a card catalog of every sexual encounter of every kind you've had since you were a teenager?
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