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Old 04-25-2014, 02:30 PM
 
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? You must be good looking or carry an air of confidence. You obviously have weak game but these chicks are fawning over you. Do something about it.
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Old 04-25-2014, 02:32 PM
 
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The thing is, there have been times when I thought a girl was interested, but I was totally wrong, and she was just being nice. So how do I know the difference?
She probably was but then you started acting weird / weak / creepy and turned her off.

Either you have no game and are good looking enough to naturally attract girls or your playing with the CD crowd.
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Old 04-25-2014, 02:43 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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Stop trying to analyze every little thing and do what your gut wants you to do.....

Last edited by Auraliea; 04-25-2014 at 02:52 PM..
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Old 04-25-2014, 02:44 PM
 
Location: Pa
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probably just think that she was giving him a physical.
Lol! Turn your head and cough.
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Old 04-25-2014, 03:48 PM
 
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Were these signals from girls that I missed, or am I reading too much into them after the fact? These were all in the past few years at college, all different girls:

-Girl tells me after class she's "sick of going out all the time" and might want to stay in this weekend. Tells me to call her if I want to do something. I thought she was just being nice. Same girl kissed me on the cheek after class once. She had a boyfriend at the time, but NEVER mentioned him.

-Several drunk/tipsy girls at bars, asking me to come to a different bar with them. I declined.

-Meet a girl at a bar, I start talking about her wanting to come back to my place, she asks if my roommates are around. Wasn't sure how to reply lol

-Girl writes on my fb wall for my bday, saying we should go out for drinks (even though we've never hung out). We go. I wasn't sure if it was a date or not, so I didn't flirt w her. Just ate wings and talked

-A girl jokes around about how we should stop working on a class project and go makeout

-Meet a girl at a party, we talk for hours, holding each other in arms as we stand. Don't make a move.

-Meet a girl at a party, she gives me a tour of her apartment next door, we go into her room and she sits on her bed. I stay standing.


I'm sure there are many more.

Am I reading too much into these?
No. You blew a lot of opportunities, my friend.
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Old 04-25-2014, 04:51 PM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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I used to think I was obtuse.
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Old 04-25-2014, 04:54 PM
 
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I used to think I was obtuse.
Yeah. Not to make the OP feel bad, but if there were a record, he'd be anointed with it.

I mean, there were a couple of times in my callow youth when I totally, utterly missed the buying signal. Every guy in his salad days did. But, OP, you really need to learn to strike while the iron is hot. Trust me on that.
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Old 04-25-2014, 06:31 PM
 
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-Girl tells me after class she's "sick of going out all the time" and might want to stay in this weekend. Tells me to call her if I want to do something. I thought she was just being nice. Same girl kissed me on the cheek after class once. She had a boyfriend at the time, but NEVER mentioned him.

-Several drunk/tipsy girls at bars, asking me to come to a different bar with them. I declined.

-Meet a girl at a bar, I start talking about her wanting to come back to my place, she asks if my roommates are around. Wasn't sure how to reply lol

-Girl writes on my fb wall for my bday, saying we should go out for drinks (even though we've never hung out). We go. I wasn't sure if it was a date or not, so I didn't flirt w her. Just ate wings and talked

-A girl jokes around about how we should stop working on a class project and go makeout

-Meet a girl at a party, we talk for hours, holding each other in arms as we stand. Don't make a move.

-Meet a girl at a party, she gives me a tour of her apartment next door, we go into her room and she sits on her bed. I stay standing.

I don't fault you for the first one and I'll cut you a little slack for the second. But the rest of them, .
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