Dating a bisexual woman (lesbians, women, cheat, sex)

[Stratford Stan]

Anyone do it? How is it like? I have a woman who identifies as bisexual in my life right now and i'm intrigued. For starters it could mean crossing something off my HS sexual bucket list and just the sheer novelty of it. However I'm skeptical about the long term prospects. A. She may just be a lesbian in denial B. she may decide she misses woman and cheat or leave so it is a risky emotional investment. Also there may be an incompatibility long term because she rolls in a way more fringe scene then I do. So is it worth my effort or not?

[Tatooine]

"She doesn't know what she wants" and "they're more promiscuous" are two of the biggest stereotypes of bisexuals. Maybe you should mature a little before you cross a living, breathing person "off your bucket list."

[Magnatomicflux]

Originally Posted by Stratford Stan

Anyone do it? How is it like? I have a woman who identifies as bisexual in my life right now and i'm intrigued. For starters it could mean crossing something off my HS sexual bucket list and just the sheer novelty of it. However I'm skeptical about the long term prospects. A. She may just be a lesbian in denial B. she may decide she misses woman and cheat or leave so it is a risky emotional investment. Also there may be an incompatibility long term because she rolls in a way more fringe scene then I do. So is it worth my effort or not?

If your HS bucket list is watching two girls have sex, and not including you, then go for it.

[Stratford Stan]

Originally Posted by Magnatomicflux

If your HS bucket list is watching two girls have sex, and not including you, then go for it.

nah I would rather jump in. If your asking if I want to have sex with a lesbian than no. Most are unattractive to me anyways.

[SD4020]

Methinks someone has watched a bit too much porn. I'd be doubtful it plays out like the op hopes.

[Magnatomicflux]

Originally Posted by Stratford Stan

nah I would rather jump in. If your asking if I want to have sex with a lesbian than no. Most are unattractive to me anyways.

Originally Posted by SD4020

Methinks someone has watched a bit too much porn. I'd be doubtful it plays out like the op hopes.

You see, that's what he didn't understand about my post. He probably won't have the chance to "jump in".

He's going to be largely ignored, and left to do his business, by himself, on the edge of the bed. lol

[John13]

Originally Posted by Stratford Stan

nah I would rather jump in. If your asking if I want to have sex with a lesbian than no. Most are unattractive to me anyways.

Stereotype much?

I've done my share of going out at night and observing life in general and I find this to be not true.
Many are indeed feminine and attractive.

[Stratford Stan]

Originally Posted by John13

Stereotype much?

I've done my share of going out at night and observing life in general and I find this to be not true.
Many are indeed feminine and attractive.

All the ones I've seen are butch or have some androgynous vibe to them. Many lipstick lesbians which you are referring to are actually bi.

[John13]

Originally Posted by Stratford Stan

All the ones I've seen are butch or have some androgynous vibe to them. Many lipstick lesbians which you are referring to are actually bi.

Nope. Just average everyday looking women going on with their life.
In many if not most cases one can't tell...

[JustJulia]

The worldly wisdom of a high school junior.