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...Women, what's your secret to having a socially acceptable sex drive?
Kid, many women's sex drive isn't socially acceptable. And the very idea of woman having a sex drive at all only became acceptable sometime after the Victorian era gasped its last, maybe sometime during the Roaring 20's it began to become acceptable that women were interested in sex. Society's attitude (at least in North America) toward women's sex drive is still evolving.
Look at the guys on this forum who shame women who have multiple partners or whose "number" is too high. There was a thread on here recently where men bashed women who pose for porn mags, even though men love to look at those mags. (This makes no sense to me.) It's often the male players and cheaters who are the most hateful of women who play the same game as them.
The only secret to women having a socially acceptable sex drive is to hide it, and pretend to conform with society's limited expectations for women in that realm.
Supposedly, men are more perverted than women. It is generally men who get shamed for viewing pornography, making lewd comments, objectifying the other gender, having higher (and more superficial) standards for beauty, still chasing after younger women (even if they are old enough to be their father). Supposedly, when men reach a certain age they have a lower sex drive than women (and even have erection problems), however before that certain men are thought of as pigs. Men are so perverted that there is no shortage of children raised without fathers.
...On the internet, there is no shortage of women shaming men for their sexual behavior, their masturbation habits, and creeping out ladies.
...Women, what's your secret to having a socially acceptable sex drive?
Men get shamed for wanting sex, women get shamed for wanting sex or not wanting sex depending on the thread.
The percentage of men that I think are actual perverts or creeps is very low. And I like being with someone who is a bit perverted. I don't want to be with a monk.
Judging from the popularity of movies being made and those being popular ,it appears the the culture is pretty much split even .
I have noticed that younger men ,(not homosexual) are loosing their interest in women due to the current trend of abuse there is to divorce .
I have personal reservations about "romantic relationships" due to women that don't listen in conversation, they have their own agenda brewing.
Married women that are secure in a relationship are much easier to talk to ,they have no hidden agenda .
If they would stop with the acting and be their real person (if they can find it) life would-be much simpler. Both men and women but mostly women.
The sex drive in a man get's a lot of coaching both from with in and eye candy being tantalized but kept at a distance, voluntarily or involuntarily .
Low plunge dresses shorts and so on .
In men it takes either discipline or fear to learn to ignore these actions.
Women are deliberately culturing these sexual interest among one another, and in the romance novels they read.
Men rarely discuss women, at least in the many environments I work and live.
I know what women talk about, having listened in lunch rooms and restaurants and other public areas often.
So in a sense you could say, while one is learning the disciplines of restraint, the other is culturing the lack there of.
Since the dawn of man women have been brought up with the mentality that sex is for men only. It's has never been morally acceptable for a woman to vocally express her fondness (especially around men) for anything more than traditional missionary position in the dark under the sheets. If she does she is viewed as two timing *****, not only by men but also by bitter women with low self esteem and unhappy sex life.
Since the dawn of man women have been brought up with the mentality that sex is for men only. It's has never been morally acceptable for a woman to vocally express her fondness (especially around men) for anything more than traditional missionary position in the dark under the sheets. If she does she is viewed as two timing *****, not only by men but also by bitter women with low self esteem and unhappy sex life.
What does position preference, time of day and location for sex have to do with two-timing? I've never heard that association being made before.
Since the dawn of man women have been brought up with the mentality that sex is for men only. It's has never been morally acceptable for a woman to vocally express her fondness (especially around men) for anything more than traditional missionary position in the dark under the sheets. If she does she is viewed as two timing *****, not only by men but also by bitter women with low self esteem and unhappy sex life.
That might have been true 50 years ago but that's now how it was among my peers.
Maybe not you, but there is no shortage of forum posts shaming a man's sex drive. Shaming on a woman's sex drive does exist, but nowhere near the shaming of men.
Sex drive in a normal natural part of being human.
I don't see the posts you are referring to shaming anyone for it.
What I see is people taking a stand against the misuse and abuse of that sex drive.
Men get shamed for wanting sex, women get shamed for wanting sex or not wanting sex depending on the thread.
The percentage of men that I think are actual perverts or creeps is very low. And I like being with someone who is a bit perverted. I don't want to be with a monk.
Supposedly, only a monk can achieve spiritual enlightenment and freedom desire, the shackles of the human spirit.
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