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Old 05-02-2014, 01:47 PM
 
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It is. People say my standards are too high. Well they are. I'm not the best looking guy in the world. I don't have women swooning all over me. But I will never settle.
You might not settle, but you might actually mature to where you realize there's more to attraction than what a woman looks like. It's about maturity, not settling. A sweet, generous personality can be mighty attractive. It can make a 6 into an 8, sparing you a lot of drama. Get it together, man.
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Old 05-02-2014, 01:51 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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You might not settle, but you might actually mature to where you realize there's more to attraction than what a woman looks like. It's about maturity, not settling. A sweet, generous personality can be mighty attractive. It can make a 6 into an 8, sparing you a lot of drama. Get it together, man.
All that is for when you are approaching 50. Not for those under 40
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Old 05-02-2014, 02:54 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Dude, how would you know? You've only been on 4 dates in your life, IIRC. You walked out on one that was going well, by your account. You ditched another babe because you freaked out about her going to a spring break party scene. I'm afraid to ask what you did to the other two women you've dated. And you're saying dating = drama? YEAH, because you're the drama king! Mellow out, man. Loosen up, you're too uptight about it all.
Don't judge me. Btw I'm in therapy and will not be approaching women anytime soon. I will probably never have a serious girlfriend and from what I see nowadays... I'm not missing out on anything.
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Old 05-02-2014, 02:57 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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All that is for when you are approaching 50. Not for those under 40
You'd be surprised. Some guys come by their wisdom at an early age. Not all guys under 40 are overgrown adolescents.
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Old 05-02-2014, 02:57 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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You might not settle, but you might actually mature to where you realize there's more to attraction than what a woman looks like. It's about maturity, not settling. A sweet, generous personality can be mighty attractive. It can make a 6 into an 8, sparing you a lot of drama. Get it together, man.
And like I said, I don't care how nice she is. If I'm not attracted to her I will not go out with her. I'd rather be alone if I couldn't date a woman I wanted to date.
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Old 05-02-2014, 04:52 PM
 
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Your username is doobalistic and you talk about buying 400 dollars worth of pot ever two weeks. It doesn't take much thought to come up with that name.

I suppose burn out could work too.
I have been called doobie since I was one because I liked scooby doo so it has nothing to do with weed.
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Old 05-02-2014, 04:53 PM
 
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And like I said, I don't care how nice she is. If I'm not attracted to her I will not go out with her. I'd rather be alone if I couldn't date a woman I wanted to date.
This nice doesn't get men dates I don't know why people think it should work for women.
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Old 05-02-2014, 04:54 PM
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And like I said, I don't care how nice she is. If I'm not attracted to her I will not go out with her. I'd rather be alone if I couldn't date a woman I wanted to date.
I always thought it was funny how women are allowed to be choosey but us men must settle and not be shallow lol
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Old 05-02-2014, 04:55 PM
 
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I have been called doobie since I was one because I liked scooby doo so it has nothing to do with weed.
What are you talking about dude? Shaggy and Scooby we're high as hell damn near all of the time.
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Old 05-02-2014, 04:57 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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I always thought it was funny how women are allowed to be choosey but us men must settle and not be shallow lol
Double standard. I am choosy and always have been. Why should men who are unlucky in dating settle?
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