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Old 05-03-2014, 06:24 PM
 
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Hmmm I haven't asked him any of these things. Honestly while we were on the phone I didn't say much. I just gave an occasional "uh huh". He asked if I had a bf, but I didn't ask him. I thought I'd save all those questions for our in person outing.

You are asking what to do in the first post and here several posts later you have decided to save all those questions for "our in person outing".

Why exactly are you here asking about what exactly?
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Old 05-03-2014, 06:31 PM
 
Location: Keystone State
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No I don't think he's moving back. He comes back to our hometown to visit his family quite often. I'll just see how it goes. It's all on him, I don't plan on making any first moves. I don't plan on reaching out to him or visiting him. If he wants me I want him to show it with his actions.

Don't do it, unless of course you want to get hurt again.
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Old 05-03-2014, 08:13 PM
 
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Okay guys thanks for all the input. I plan on being straight up with him!
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Old 05-03-2014, 08:15 PM
 
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I am going to meet him, I just wanted to know what others thought about the situation.
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Old 05-03-2014, 08:25 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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I am going to meet him, I just wanted to know what others thought about the situation.

Use a condom.
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Old 05-03-2014, 08:28 PM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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Use a condom.

I don't think that's going to happen, buddy:






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Married and knocking me up within the next two years! I want him! I've always wanted him, I've thought about him throughout my relationship with the last guy I was with. I think about him quite often, he is an awesome guy…. minus the dropping and moving without me.
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Old 05-03-2014, 08:30 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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I don't think that's going to happen, buddy:
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Old 05-03-2014, 08:36 PM
 
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A guy once explained to me that some inexperienced guys get lucky and get a good woman and this boosts his ego and then he gets big-headed and starts to wonder what else he can get/if he can do better. Then he dumps his good woman and goes out there into the dating world and realizes that he can't do better, in fact, he can only do worse. Then he realizes how good his woman was and goes running back to her aka "the best thing that's ever happened to him" the girlfriend he dumped.

You can either take him back or tell him it won't work. It's up to you.
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Old 05-03-2014, 08:37 PM
 
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no need lol it won't get physical!
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Old 05-03-2014, 08:42 PM
 
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I plan on telling him we can talk but he not getting none of this lusciousness until he is ready to fully commit! It's either all or nothing hell, i'm pass that state of slip ups, that ended up with us having hot sex, and me being down the next day. No physical useless we're married!!!!! He's 30, has an awesome career what else is there!
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