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Old 05-03-2014, 01:00 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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Why not? Don't you have friends? Are some of them women?

Things are going well, she shows interest in you, and she told you the truth.

[chill out or she's going to put you on ice]

Yes and I had lunch with one of them recently but we don't spend the weekend at each other's places. Plus my female friends have boyfriends. This girl is driving to see a man and didn't reveal if he was single or not


But I am not going to dwell on it, just wait for her to get back and move on from there
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Old 05-03-2014, 01:06 PM
 
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Obviously it is more than a friend, and she is sleeping with him. She is open about it too, and you two arent exclusive. Isnt this what your gut is telling you? I bet it is, and you should trust it. Drop her and go date few other girls. You'll be much better off.
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Old 05-03-2014, 01:15 PM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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I don't know about the whole male friend thing but do people in the States really drive five hours to see one person? In Malaysia after one hour in the car everyone starts grumbling, lol.
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Old 05-03-2014, 01:20 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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Your situation reminds me of that Agatha Christie book, Death on the Nile
lol

"Hercule Poirot: I was thinking of Molière: 'La grande ambition des femmes est d'inspirer l'amour'.
"The great ambition of women is to inspire love."

SOME women don't treat the men love them the most the best. If you are not okay with that, find yourself a sweet woman who treats you the way you want to be treated.
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Old 05-03-2014, 01:28 PM
 
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This gonna sound cold but there are 2 scenarios here. You shouldn't stress out over either of them.

1. You tapped that, she might have another FWB or significant other. At least you got to tap. No worries.

2. You didn't tap that and, she's meeting an FWB or significant other. Your time is freed to find a woman who won't jerk you around. No worries.

Life is too short to worry about things that don't ruin or end your life.
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Old 05-03-2014, 01:32 PM
 
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Your situation reminds me of that Agatha Christie book, Death on the Nile
lol

"Hercule Poirot: I was thinking of Molière: 'La grande ambition des femmes est d'inspirer l'amour'.
"The great ambition of women is to inspire love."

SOME women don't treat the men love them the most the best. If you are not okay with that, find yourself a sweet woman who treats you the way you want to be treated.
Some women only date men who trust them, and who ask questions if they have questions. Why waste time on the others?
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Old 05-03-2014, 01:32 PM
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Well I have not caught any feelings yet and I think that's the best thing for now.
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Old 05-03-2014, 01:34 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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Well I have not caught any feelings yet and I think that's the best thing for now.
I think that is the best for you as well.

I moved to another country for a guy, but once I got him I lost interests. This is usually how it works. lol hahaha

Some people just live for the fun. No need to over analyze it.
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Old 05-03-2014, 01:39 PM
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I think that is the best for you as well.

I moved to another country for a guy, but once I got him I lost interests. This is usually how it works. lol hahaha

Some people just live for the fun. No need to over analyze it.


3 days ago I decided to start ignoring her to test her interest and it seemed to make her more aggressive. After ignoring the first 2 texts she sent a 3rd one last night asking..."are you ok"

So I will just continue to go with the flow
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Old 05-03-2014, 01:39 PM
 
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I think she's either banging the other guy(likely) or is testing you. Either way, I'd bounce immediately.
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