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Old 05-03-2014, 05:53 PM
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She can be interested in you and sleeping with multiple men. They are not mutually exclusive
another good point which is why dating is so risky
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Old 05-03-2014, 05:56 PM
 
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She can be interested in you and sleeping with multiple men. They are not mutually exclusive
I've seen AND heard about women who will NOT sleep with a guy they think is boyfriend / LTR material. They do this so that the guy thinks they're special, not slutty, etc. Meanwhile, they are banging guys on the side they don't see futures with. Whether it's really hot guys they know won't commit, or ex boyfriends, whatever.

Then they get all butthurt when the target boyfriend finds out down the road and is upset. Then they come to CD and get support from everyone except a few....but you werent exclluusssssivvveee, you didn't do anything wrooooong. LOL.
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Old 05-03-2014, 05:58 PM
 
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I've seen AND heard about women who will NOT sleep with a guy they think is boyfriend / LTR material. They do this so that the guy thinks they're special, not slutty, etc. Meanwhile, they are banging guys on the side they don't see futures with. Whether it's really hot guys they know won't commit, or ex boyfriends, whatever.

Then they get all butthurt when the target boyfriend finds out down the road and is upset. Then they come to CD and get support from everyone except a few....but you werent exclluusssssivvveee, you didn't do anything wrooooong. LOL.
Yeah, but I think this type of woman is the minority.
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Old 05-03-2014, 06:00 PM
 
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Yeah, but I think this type of woman is the minority.
One would hope, but in the world of attractive women, you'd be surprised.
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Old 05-03-2014, 06:02 PM
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And she is attractive and probably has plenty of options lol
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Old 05-03-2014, 06:03 PM
 
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Some women only date men who trust them, and who ask questions if they have questions. Why waste time on the others?
Translation: Some women only date chumps who are ok with being walked on.

Trust (and respect) are earned, not things that are assumed with strangers.
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Old 05-03-2014, 06:06 PM
 
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And she is attractive and probably has plenty of options lol
The odds are she is sleeping with this dude. That's the way you should play it.

I would not dwell on her or this situation, go with the flow, date other women as well, and stop posting on the internet about her. Why should a girl you've seen three times FROM THE INTERNET be on your mind so much man??? Have you even slept with her?
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Old 05-03-2014, 06:09 PM
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The odds are she is sleeping with this dude. That's the way you should play it.

I would not dwell on her or this situation, go with the flow, date other women as well, and stop posting on the internet about her. Why should a girl you've seen three times FROM THE INTERNET be on your mind so much man??? Have you even slept with her?


She is not on my mind until she texts me. I created this thread I just finished talking to her last night
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Old 05-03-2014, 06:13 PM
 
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She is not on my mind until she texts me. I created this thread I just finished talking to her last night
Come on dude. Be real with yourself. If you are posting on the internet to strangers looking for advice, she's on your mind.

Anyways, there are better places for advice.

Do you think you should be listening to middle aged women or guys who are successful with women for relationship advice?
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Old 05-03-2014, 06:15 PM
 
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Tell her you're driving to see your female friend from college who lives 6 hours away.

The only thing you can do right now is wait and see what her relationship is like with this friend.
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