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How is that being a 'b^tch'? I asked a serious question about a relationship issue, and I got a snarky remark about how I should focus on my work instead of on a relationship. I didn't come here for job advice. I have no problems defending myself if someone wants to be rude and state comments about my work life.
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Originally Posted by hotcoldbaby
No, this is a relationship forum. I didn't ask for job advice or what I should be focusing on "instead of a relationship". I asked for a males perspective on quiet girls.
As for the people who keep commenting about how I should focus on my job if I valued it. I don't value it. It is a part time retail job which I will not be staying at long term. So you can feel free to stop changing the subject back to that. All I wanted to know was what a man's opinion of a very introverted girl is or if they've ever encountered this type of situation. Leave it at that.
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Originally Posted by hotcoldbaby
Ok clearly this was the wrong forum to go on.
Forget I posted here. I thought this was a forum that gave out useful information. Then again I realize no one would be on a relationship forum if they were actually in one, so I get responses from a bunch of bitter rude singles who are attacking me rather than giving me ADVICE.
Forget I asked. I'm deleting my account. Bye
Guess I was wrong. You don't come off as a b^tch at all.
Forget I posted here. I thought this was a forum that gave out useful information. Then again I realize no one would be on a relationship forum if they were actually in one, so I get responses from a bunch of bitter rude singles who are attacking me rather than giving me ADVICE.
Forget I asked. I'm deleting my account. Bye
I have a very sweet girlfriend. You asked for advice as to why your BOSS wasn't basically hitting on you anymore. I explained why, you didn't like the response.
It probably just got old trying to have fun with you at work and you sat there like a stick in the mud. So instead of trying, it's just business with you.
He's not offended, you're boring.
Woe is me, I don't get attention anymore. Come on. Grow up.
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Originally Posted by The Ryu
Re-read her post.
I began working for this guy (my boss) a few months ago. We are both in our 20's. When I first began working for him a few months back, he was SUPER friendly and nice to me. Smiled at me all the time, said hi to me every single day. I developed a crush on him just because he was being so nice and giving me attention I guess.
He is a very outgoing extravert. I am pretty (not cocky about it)
Anyway, I began to notice these past few months that he stopped being so nice to me. He no longer smiles at me, when I look at him he avoids eye contact and looks away. He ignores me. And I know he is offended because I don't talk to him. My co worker told me that he was talking to him and made a remark about how I never talk to him.
Re-read mine.
Sounds like he's just a friendly guy, just as she posted in the OP. She was boring, he stopped trying to have fun. Not sure where he told the co worker he wanted to hit it.
Forget I posted here. I thought this was a forum that gave out useful information. Then again I realize no one would be on a relationship forum if they were actually in one, so I get responses from a bunch of bitter rude singles who are attacking me rather than giving me ADVICE.
Forget I asked. I'm deleting my account. Bye
Lol
I post on this forum, and I am married.
So...
OP:
Is everyone who responded to your post single?
How do you know that everyone who responded to your post is single?
Sounds like he's just a friendly guy, just as she posted in the OP. She was boring, he stopped trying to have fun. Not sure where he told the co worker he wanted to hit it.
Who would ever blatantly tell someone that they want to have sex with a co-worker?
Forget I posted here. I thought this was a forum that gave out useful information. Then again I realize no one would be on a relationship forum if they were actually in one, so I get responses from a bunch of bitter rude singles who are attacking me rather than giving me ADVICE.
Forget I asked. I'm deleting my account. Bye
I think, you got some sound advise from the good insightful folks here on CD_R
Who would ever blatantly tell someone that they want to have sex with a co-worker?
Your's is an assumption as is mine. But I doubt a boss being friendly in today's world of sexual harassment firings equates to him wanted to bang her. My opinion.
How do you know that everyone who responded to your post is single?
You are making assumptions.
Nawwww, she wouldn't do that! She proved it by deciding her boss had a crush on her by saying "hi" and smiling!
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