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Old 05-18-2014, 01:24 AM
 
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This guy friend of mine (i only met him 4 months ago at uni) told me he was "worried" about me the other day (nothing to worry about, i was just not being very responsive through texts, he had recently came back from his home town and he knew i had exams and stuff, he got worried apparently and tried to call me a few times.
He also told me not long ago that he liked to annoy/tease me, which i found rather cute. He does indeed tease me a lot, he makes me laugh.

Do you think he might like me? Would a guy tell a girl "I was worried about you" or "I want/like to annoy you" if he is not into her, is it a way of flirting?

Sometimes when he teases me he get closer to me physically, like coming really close to my face, blocking my way, even when i don't seem in the mood. He plays dumb and i end up laughing.

I'm leaving soon and if there's a chance for stg to happen between him and me, i'd like to try. I like him
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Old 05-18-2014, 08:07 AM
 
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OP:

The best way to find out if he likes you is...

To just ask him yourself.
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Old 05-18-2014, 08:20 AM
 
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I never know what it means when a guy who is not my boyfriend, relative or best friend says "I worry about you". I have had it said to me before and I don't know what it means.
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Old 05-18-2014, 08:21 AM
 
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Sounds like the guy either likes dudes or is too scared to take things to the next level.

What type of dude says some of the stuff this guy says??? "I like to annoy you"??? WTH.

I agree with snugglegirl...just ask him if he is interested in something more than a friendship.

If he stutters or hesitates the least bit I would look for other options.

Plenty of guys out there that would love the company of a woman like you.
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Old 05-18-2014, 08:22 AM
 
Location: Northern NY
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Several decades ago a wise man once told me, "...the idiosyncrasies we find cute about someone today, will become our irritations and problems tomorrow..." In my case, it was her always "needing" to hit me, punch me. As it turned out she was very abusive. Thank God she's gone and I learned! My son asked me about this "cute" girl in his third grade class hitting him every time she got near him. I told him he needed to put a stop to her physically abusing him and to explain to the teacher that physical abuse regardless of gender is physical abuse. Be sure that you ALWAYS will love that so called "cute" childish, selfish behavior, especially since by your words it is not welcomed...until you give in and laugh. Will you always be laughing when your feelings are being ignored about what you find comforting or irritating? And how far will he continue such if allowed now? Food for thought, maybe not.
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Old 05-18-2014, 08:23 AM
 
Location: Earth
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Ask him out. He may like you, he may not. But there was a saying I heard from someone "Until he actually does something, he hasn't done anything."

He may like you, but don't assume until he asks you out, or you ask him and he says yes. He may just want sex, but again, can't be sure.

Some guys are just flirty. I have had many guys flirt..even in unromantic ways, but they never did ask him out. So, they couldn't have been interested.

Flirting doesn't always have to mean something--sad as it is. So, if he's not asking you out, then you may need to go to him.

I do worry about a guy that likes to annoy his girl. Tease sure. But that's not the same thing as annoying. If you annoy someone, you're getting on their nerves, which I would think you wouldn't want to do.
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Old 05-18-2014, 08:27 AM
 
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Plenty of guys out there that would love the company of a woman like you.
Aww what a sweet thing to say...
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Old 05-18-2014, 10:04 AM
 
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You have a lot of posts of versions of "does this guy like me.", in fact, all of your posts.

If he asks you out, he likes you. I would stay with that as your guideline.
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Old 05-18-2014, 11:58 AM
 
Location: North Idaho
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I don't know, OP. I have lots of people in my life that I worry about if I don't hear from them in the usual time frame. Friends, relatives, co-workers.... that doesn't mean I want to date them.

You could always ask him if he would like to go on a date with you. However, you only do that if you think you'd like to have a romantic relationship with him. If you don't want a relationship, leave the matter alone.
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