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Alright, so all of your answers guys point to the same answer: I'm the problem!
If you were the problem, that means it can be fixed. It cant be. You can't make a guy want to commit to you. Its up to them.
I have the feeling you are probably trying too hard, trying to be what someone wants you to be. You have a better chance of just being yourself and meeting the right person.
If you were the problem, that means it can be fixed. It cant be. You can't make a guy want to commit to you. Its up to them.
I have the feeling you are probably trying too hard, trying to be what someone wants you to be. You have a better chance of just being yourself and meeting the right person.
I'm not one to conceal my identity and who I am. That's the main problem. Most men I met tend to be gentlemen at first, then start picking flaws and undermine me. I'm definitely not someone who tries to please a guy by putting a front, it's only delaying the incompatibility discovery.
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I'm not one to conceal my identity and who I am. That's the main problem. Most men I met tend to be gentlemen at first, then start picking flaws and undermine me. I'm definitely not someone who tries to please a guy by putting a front, it's only delaying the incompatibility discovery.
Picking flaws and undermining you? What interesting choice of words. Can you give an example? I can't recall going out with someone and starting pointing out their flaws. That would be pretty messed up... can't imagine how it goes down.
Alright, so all of your answers guys point to the same answer: I'm the problem!
That does seem to be what a great number of people on this thread are saying. They may not intend to say that, but that is the logic of their position.
If, as many on here seem to think, men are generally happy to commit to the "right" woman, then it follows logically that you weren't the right woman. Personally, I don't buy it. I don't think most men are nearly as willing to commit as many people on here seem to think.
You are awful young. You need to be playing the field and meeting as many people as you can. If you try and commit to someone now, you'll be missing out on meeting hundreds of people, one of which might really be the right one for you.
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