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A lot of people say this one guy and I have really good chemistry but I am not romantically interested to him at all. I get along and connect with a lot of guys but there isn't necessarily attraction. Pretty much just friendship.
As the title suggest...can you have chemistry with someone and no attraction?
Yes. People can feel a bond with one another and not feel attraction. Sometimes that bond is enough to spark up attraction. Attraction alone, can't spark up the bond.
I went on a date with a guy a couple weeks ago ... We had great chemistry (as in intellectual chemistry) but unfortunately, there was no physical attraction on my part. He was really cool and we got along really well but the physical attraction was zero. I could picture him more as a friend.
On the flip side, I went on a couple of dates with another guy and the physical attraction was sizzling on top of the amazing friends-like chemistry. That's when you know someone is "more than friends" material.
This thread topic reminded me of a pleasant experience I had a few years ago.
Now the young woman in question. If you were to show me a photo of her before we met, well I would have run to the hills, well not quite but you get the Idea.
Physically, she was overweight. Big in good places for a woman too though However she had a very bubbly personality, was a fun person to be around most of the time.
And the catcher was sexually the chemistry was quite amazing. We just clicked and connected.
So yes it can happen, but unfortunately IMO it is rare!
I thought the chemistry WAS in the bonding of the sexuality molecules!
I hope not ... in sports, we often talk about "team chemistry" so if it involves sexual attraction then it would put a new and interesting light on this aspect.
Yes chmeistry and no physical attraction=friendship thast why if you dont pass somebodies physical threshold you cant get your foot in the door romantically no matter how much u connect
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However she had a very bubbly personality, was a fun person to be around most of the time.
